Is this behavior acceptable in a relationship?

[Etric]

Dear Ash,

You are dating out of your league and have absolutely no game at all

Please ride your luck (and your girl) for as long as you can until she drop kicks you to the curb.

As payment for my advice, you may post/PM me more pics of your gf. Thank you.

Pwnt.

[onthebutton]

Etric,

I loved how after he'd been obviously caught (score one for me) he reverted back to the gimmick.

[Sponger.]

You sound like a dick who can't be trusted. Also you either practically never smoked or your girlfriend is an idiot for not noticing, and you're a dick for not telling her.

[rwanger]

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IMO, unacceptable. 3 years is serious. You're "partners". Saying "you can't come to this party" is terrible. If my partner said that to me, I'd be like WTF WHY?. She has a right to be mad imo

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Seriously?

Are you telling me that you invite yourself to every social gathering that your partner attends? Or is there a certain point reached in every relationship after which your invitation is assumed for everything your partner does?

This is how I envision it:
You: "Can I come with you tonight?"
Partner: "Sorry schmoopie, it's wednesday night with my coworkers"
You: "WTF WHY?"
Partner: "I think it's okay for us to do things seperately"
You: "F THAT, why do you think they call it 'partners'? Give me 1 good reason."
Partner: "My reason is that I'd rather you didn't come."
You: "That's not a reason"

etc. etc.

[nath]

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Guys, this took way too long :



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That must be why she doesn't want him to go, she's afraid he's going to go around grabbing everybody's ass.

Also, if I had to hide from a girl I was dating that I smoked, well... we wouldn't be dating.

[Victor]

yo ash, do you play 10-20 on party?

[MuresanForMVP]

AsH is my favorite poster on 2+2...that is all

[traz]

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IMO, unacceptable. 3 years is serious. You're "partners". Saying "you can't come to this party" is terrible. If my partner said that to me, I'd be like WTF WHY?. She has a right to be mad imo

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Seriously?

Are you telling me that you invite yourself to every social gathering that your partner attends? Or is there a certain point reached in every relationship after which your invitation is assumed for everything your partner does?

This is how I envision it:
You: "Can I come with you tonight?"
Partner: "Sorry schmoopie, it's wednesday night with my coworkers"
You: "WTF WHY?"
Partner: "I think it's okay for us to do things seperately"
You: "F THAT, why do you think they call it 'partners'? Give me 1 good reason."
Partner: "My reason is that I'd rather you didn't come."
You: "That's not a reason"

etc. etc.

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No, I wouldn't invite myself. But I'd expect an open invitation to anything like the OP is talking about. Girl's night out, more formal functions etc etc are different situations. But a party with a bunch of new friends? Thats an automatic invitation. Whether I want to go or not is irrelevant.

[vginaman]

This guy can't be for real can he?

I'd really love to interview this girl he's going out with. Granted, he's a super-douche but there's likely not much he can do about it and he's obviously making the best of it so god bless him. But WTF can she possibly be thinking?

Any guy who has self-confidence issues when it comes to women should read this thread and look at that picture.

And he's my 2nd favorite poster behind Tuq because he posts a lot more and his avatar cracks me up every single time.

[wdead]

WTF why dont you want to go to party with her? If you have a reason you should explain it to her. If not she is right you are wrong.