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#391
08-25-2006, 03:20 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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[ QUOTE ] When your fiancee is taking someone else's cock into her body, YOU ARE NOT THE ONE FACED WITH AN APOLOGY EVER. He didn't touch her. You act like he put her in the ICU. He didn't even break anything. Hey sorry I yelled a bit and kicked a door, I just have an aversion to tasting other guys' spooge when I go down on my fiancee. WTF WTF WTF WTF. [/ QUOTE ] One more time for the reading impaired: A : when she hung up the phone all he knew was that he just saw a suspicious phone call. His reaction was [censored] up. B : for the sake of their kid the adults in this situation need to act like adults. apologizing for flipping before he knew what was going on is a good way to start this. C : I'm not acting like he did anything other than yell at her and kick the door. D : if there's no kid then he can call her up right now tell her what a [censored] [censored] [censored] she is without getting any explanation for the call and her subsequent reaction, but there is a kid. ~FishNChips [/ QUOTE ] One more time for the reading impaired: LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL. This is so ridiculous. He IS acting like an adult. Do you know what people who aren't acting like adults in this situation do? Break [censored], hurt her, kill her, track the dude down, damage her property, take the kid, etc. Also, they run into another room, lock the door and refuse to explain anything. I yelled at a woman who rearended me by driving idiotically and then had no insurance. I'm glad you weren't there to tell me that I should apologize to HER. His reaction was closer to calm than I would guess the median reaction would be. And his suspicions appear to be correct. It'd be like a boss calling someone into the office on Friday at 4 and he starts talking about subpar performance. The employee says "OMG I'M FIRED? How can you fire me?" The boss says "well, yeah, you're fired. Would you mind apologizing for reacting before you knew what was going on plz?" 
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#393
08-25-2006, 03:34 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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I'm with Black Aces on this one. OP doesn't need to apologize for anything; he showed pretty decent restraint in what he did and didn't do. [/ QUOTE ] It sounded like he flew off the handle really quickly and over-reacted. However, subsequent events should lead any thinking person to believe that his reaction was justified -- if only in retrospect. He doesn't owe her an apology. She's obviously screwing around on him. Anyone who thinks he should go back and apologize to her now is retarded.
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#394
08-25-2006, 03:34 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
I think FishNChips is correct in a normal, healthy relationship. However, I don't think this relationship is (as there seems to be a backstory we don't know about). Plus, considering the other circumstances - a kid, working 10 hours+ a day to support her through college, etc. - he showed a tremendous amount of restraint.
With that said, I wouldn't mind a "Hey, I'm sorry for possibly upsetting our child. Now what the hell was that phone call about?" here.
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#395
08-25-2006, 03:38 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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I think FishNChips is correct in a normal, healthy relationship. [/ QUOTE ] Agreed. A situation where your fiancee and mother of your child is letting someone throw her the bone while you're out working to support her is not a "normal, healthy relationship". While OP may have over-reacted initially, now that the facts appear to be clear, his reaction was just right.
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#396
08-25-2006, 03:40 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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All, Did I miss the part of the thread where he terrified the 3 year old? I don't remember any mention of a kid crying or anything. [/ QUOTE ] Well, if you're desperately trying to justify your oft-repeated stance that the OP is a monster who should beg forgiveness, you'd do well not only to exaggerate facts but make up completely new ones, as well. So, yeah, shortly after destroying the bathroom fixtures in a Hulk-like rage and showering the fiance with porcelain shrapnel, OP stalked to his kid's room, snatched her up holding her high above his head, and roared, "DO YOU SEE WHAT YOUR WHORE OF A MOTHER MAKES ME DO?!"
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#397
08-25-2006, 03:41 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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[ QUOTE ] All, Did I miss the part of the thread where he terrified the 3 year old? I don't remember any mention of a kid crying or anything. [/ QUOTE ] Well, if you're desperately trying to justify your oft-repeated stance that the OP is a monster who should beg forgiveness, you'd do well not only to exaggerate facts but make up completely new ones, as well. So, yeah, shortly after destroying the bathroom fixtures in a Hulk-like rage and showering the fiance with porcelain shrapnel, OP stalked to his kid's room, snatched her up holding her high above his head, and roared, "DO YOU SEE WHAT YOUR WHORE OF A MOTHER MAKES ME DO?!" [/ QUOTE ] Awesome.
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#399
08-25-2006, 03:45 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
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[ QUOTE ] All, Did I miss the part of the thread where he terrified the 3 year old? I don't remember any mention of a kid crying or anything. [/ QUOTE ] Well, if you're desperately trying to justify your oft-repeated stance that the OP is a monster who should beg forgiveness, you'd do well not only to exaggerate facts but make up completely new ones, as well. So, yeah, shortly after destroying the bathroom fixtures in a Hulk-like rage and showering the fiance with porcelain shrapnel, OP stalked to his kid's room, snatched her up holding her high above his head, and roared, "DO YOU SEE WHAT YOUR WHORE OF A MOTHER MAKES ME DO?!" [/ QUOTE ] haha He almost had me go back and read this monster again too.
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#400
08-25-2006, 03:50 PM
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Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
Suggesting that OP is the one who needs to do _ANYTHING_ at this point is bewildering.
He needs to go back and apologize and see if things can be fixed? What?! Apologize for getting upset that she was CHEATING ON HIM? Gee, sorry I lost my temper when I walked in and saw my murdered family and you holding the bloody axe. I mean, I didn't keep my cool and get all of the information before jumping to conclusions. There is no "it was just a suspicious phone call". It is certainty that the mother of his child and future bride was getting some strange on the side. The notion that the ball is in his court to go back and fix things, starting with an apology, is simply absurd. She has his number (as she obviously knows it well enough to give it to the guys that she is humping), and is 100% the one who should be making contact here. Aside from her reaching out with sincere remorse (which likely still won't be enough to continue a romantic relationship), the only move is to wait for some time, get your stuff, and see about visiting with your kid. Apologize? Insanity.
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