Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

Quick story: Me and my fiance live in apartment where it's just her on the lease. We have a 3 year old daughter. She's just on the lease (long story I can't get into right now) She just graduated college, but hasn't found a job yet (has interviews coming up).

Last night (on my night off, I work 12 hr sched, i have Wed and Thurs night off this week), a call came on my cell phone at around 10:00. I was of course up and my fiance was just getting ready for bed.

The cell phone rang, I didn't recognize the number so I just handed it to my fiance, (It's usually one of her chick friends). She opened it and said "Hello?" I am standing next to her and hear some dude on the other end, "Hello?" My fiance says "hello." The dude says hello, my fiance says a weird hello again as if nobody is there.. Then she starts shutting the phone as if nobody was on it (but I heard the dude talkung), but before she shuts the flip phone I hear "Amanda?" (her name)


I will continue this story later. What's your play? (Note this is a completly true story that took place last night).

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

Tap the phone lines!

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

Do you have a joint bank account?

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

Sounds like it's most likely someone she didn't expect to hear from, possibly a creep of some sort who got your number. I would treat it about the same as a creepy call on her own number.

NT

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

Do you have a sturdy belt?

Tasteless kidding aside, I don't really see that there's anything good to do here other than say "What was up with that?" and don't let her wriggle out of giving you at least some kind of explanation as to how she knows this guy and why she's trying to ignore him right now. It looks pretty bad.

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

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Do you have a joint bank account?

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No, we both have our own bank accounts, the vast majority (95%) of the money is in my account.

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

not enough information yet

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

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Do you have a sturdy belt?

Tasteless kidding aside, I don't really see that there's anything good to do here other than say "What was up with that?" and don't let her wriggle out of giving you at least some kind of explanation as to how she knows this guy and why she's trying to ignore him right now. It looks pretty bad.

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This is the best advice you will receive.

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

Doesn't sound good.

You need to go into more detail on the cell situation though. Do you share a cell? Why? Why do her girlfriend call her on it? If she's cheating, why would she give some guy your number?

Re: Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance
 

Do you two share a cell phone?