Some dude called my cell phone looking for my fiance - Page 3

By-Tor · #21 08-24-2006, 05:21 PM

It's over (and has been for a long time).

theben · #22 08-24-2006, 05:21 PM

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Shout in to her that you're calling the guy back. Grab the phone and call him, and find out what's what. She'll probably come running out and confess and try to take the phone from you if she's guilty.

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i definetly like some of the concepts behind this idea. definetly find that # in her phone and jot it down (hide paper). you may need to call him to find out what is going on. don't call him immediately, approach wife first. no need to ruin any feelings of trust between you and your fiance yet but be ready to call him back if need be

RunDownHouse · #23 08-24-2006, 05:21 PM

Uh, yeah, no way this turns out well. Sorry bro.

Austiger · #24 08-24-2006, 05:21 PM

Did she have the cell with her in the room, or did you have it?

punkass · #25 08-24-2006, 05:21 PM

Story started off like it could end up happily. The more and more details you give, the more and more I think you are no longer engaged.

skunkworks · #26 08-24-2006, 05:21 PM

I call the guy back and ask who he is. You have the right to know, so if she doesn't want to fully disclose what's going on...

Dan BRIGHT · #27 08-24-2006, 05:22 PM

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Shout in to her that you're calling the guy back. Grab the phone and call him, and find out what's what. She'll probably come running out and confess and try to take the phone from you if she's guilty.

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She took the phone with her into the bedroom, and deleted the number from the received list.

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Ya, its definitely [censored] 'd now

FishSticks · #28 08-24-2006, 05:22 PM

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She took the phone with her into the bedroom, and deleted the number from the received list.

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Big problem. Tell her that either she is planning some awesome suprise for you that she needs to bring to light right now, or you're assuming she's cheating and you are leaving her. It still could be something innocent, but make it clear that if that's the case the *must* ruin your surprise party now to prevent you from deeming her a cheat and it ruining your trust and your relationship.

sekrah · #29 08-24-2006, 05:22 PM

Added Bonus Guys: She has a Myspace.Com page, And this has the potential of ending very ugly for her.

Black Aces 518 · #30 08-24-2006, 05:22 PM

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Shout in to her that you're calling the guy back. Grab the phone and call him, and find out what's what. She'll probably come running out and confess and try to take the phone from you if she's guilty.

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She took the phone with her into the bedroom, and deleted the number from the received list.

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Well [censored] that noise. That tells me about all I need to know right there. Sorry man, guess it's better to find out now rather than married. Sorry for your child too.

Had she ever before displayed a propensity to do stupid things like give guys who are sleeping with her her fiance's cell phone number? That takes a rare breed of dumb. But with her reaction, I can't envision any other scenario.