On not contacting Girls...

[britspin]

So here's the situation. My Girlfriend is out tonight with a group of people which includes a guy she once had a very brief thing with. She's also met this guy earlier in the day because he wanted to buy her a present because she helped him with some work. The present is expensive underwear. The guy is married, wealthy and lives in another city and theyt've been friends for a long time.

She's been very open and honest with me and told me all about why and I've been also very cool about it (despite thinking Underwear WTF? Truth is, She just likes sexy underwear). So I have no reason to distrust or assume anything, yet of course tonight, I'm feeling kind of edgy and hoping she'll get in touch.

The flip side of this, is that i'm very aware that even if I was complaining, all I'd really achieve is annoyance on both our parts.

So I just want OOTs reassurance that texting her would be a really sad move and suggested distractions- cause I'm not playing poker well!

[JasonK]

Insecurity will ruin you.

[caretaker1]

Contacting her: -EV
Alternatives: What are your hobbies?

[Autocratic]

"She just likes sexy underwear"? Are you kidding? While your girl seems to have no desire to be unfaithful from what you say here, this guy is trying to tap your chick. However, just let it be, don't text her or anything. If you need the assurance of hearing her (presumably while not getting railed), call her and make up some problem around the house that she can help you with.

[doug funnie]

Just get drunk at home and pass out so you avoid losing more $$ and don't piss her off.

[katyseagull]

so does the guy work in the underwear industry or something?

If a guy gave me underwear I'm pretty sure I would keep that a secret.

[Dids]

I would be SO not cool with a dude buying underwear for my girl. Who cares what she likes, that guy is sending a message with that gift and that message is "I want to [censored] your girl" I think you're correct in feeling edgy.

If you know contacting her won't do any good, then don't do it, but I dunno, I think this raises some BIG red flags, especially if she's not weirded out by his gift.

[britspin]

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What are your hobbies?

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The usual... porn, masturbation, philosphy, international politics.

[4_2_it]

Why isn't your sexy neighbor or ex-girl friend over getting drunk and watching Cabin Fever with you?

[Anqew]

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Just get drunk, [censored] her best friend, and call her.

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FYP
-Anqew