Married woman...yes or no?

[Jett Rink]

I have an opportunity that questions my morals. At work there is a woman who clearly wants some action. She is married although she says it is now a "roommates" type of deal. She hasn't gotten laid in quite a while and she is looking for me to fill that void. If no action is taken I'm sure she will find someone else to get her off.

Truth is, I find her to be quite attractive but not superior. She is a sad, lonely woman who has been feeling better since we have become better friends. I actually think I could like her and it is obvious she likes me.

Also, her real selling point is her ass. Looks sweet in blue jeans. Question 1) Should I proceed or steer clear of a married woman? Question 2) Should I give her the backdoor treatment?

[Banks2334]

Can't find a single woman to bang?

[deacsoft]

Never rub another man's rhubarb.

[eviljeff]

I don't have a problem with being "the other guy" (assuming you have no loyalty toward the husband). I think the moral wrong here is the decision to cheat, not the physical act. Just don't go falling for her until she's available officially and emotionally.

[radek]

Dont do it!!! Thats comeing from experience

[hawk59]

Sounds like you don't have the balls to do it but want to make yourself feel better by letting everyone know that you could if you wanted to. Carpe diem baby.

[Monty_Brogan]

It's up to her not to cheat. You have no responsibility here. Hit it liike a hammer, assuming the husband is smaller than you and/or not a very good shot.

[RED FACE]

slippery slope.

[Tilt]

You know those news stories you hear from time to time, the ones about the random guy found shot next to the strangled wife?

I mean, why go there?

[TimM]

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I have an opportunity that questions my morals. At work there is a woman who clearly wants some action. She is married although she says it is now a "roommates" type of deal. She hasn't gotten laid in quite a while and she is looking for me to fill that void. If no action is taken I'm sure she will find someone else to get her off.

Truth is, I find her to be quite attractive but not superior. She is a sad, lonely woman who has been feeling better since we have become better friends. I actually think I could like her and it is obvious she likes me.

Also, her real selling point is her ass. Looks sweet in blue jeans. Question 1) Should I proceed or steer clear of a married woman? Question 2) Should I give her the backdoor treatment?

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This does not look good on so many levels.

"She is married..." If you could be reasonably sure that she is telling the truth about her marital situation and her husband wouldn't care, or she already told him she is going to [censored] other guys, then fine, but...

"She is a sad, lonely woman..." - real bad news, stay away.

"At work..." - strike three.