$50 NLTRN, TPTK NFD, flop 3b or turn lead/cr decisions

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Reads: Villain ran at 51/19.4/7.5 over 31 hands. This is hand 16 of match. He minraised me in h1 and folded to my river raise when I sucked out:

Ultimate Bet No-Limit Hold'em Tourney, Big Blind is t20 (2 handed) Hand History Converter Tool from FlopTurnRiver.com (Format: 2+2 Forums)

BB (t1500)
Hero (t1500)

Preflop: Hero is Button with T[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img], 9[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img].
<font color="#CC3333">Hero raises to t60</font>, BB calls t40.

Flop: (t120) 4[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img], 4[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img], Q[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] <font color="#0000FF">(2 players)</font>
BB checks, <font color="#CC3333">Hero bets t75</font>, <font color="#CC3333">BB raises to t150</font>, Hero calls t75.

Turn: (t420) T[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] <font color="#0000FF">(2 players)</font>
BB checks, Hero checks.

River: (t420) J[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] <font color="#0000FF">(2 players)</font>
<font color="#CC3333">BB bets t160</font>, <font color="#CC3333">Hero raises to t390</font>, BB folds.

Final Pot: t740


Since then we have played small pots, no larger than 6bb. This is his first raise since h1.

Onto the hand:

Ultimate Bet No-Limit Hold'em Tourney, Big Blind is t20 (2 handed) Hand History Converter Tool from FlopTurnRiver.com (Format: 2+2 Forums)

Button (t1280)
Hero (t1720)

Preflop: Hero is BB with A[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img], K[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img].
Button calls t10, <font color="#CC3333">Hero raises to t60</font>, Button calls t40.

Flop: (t120) 5[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img], J[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img], K[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] <font color="#0000FF">(2 players)</font>
<font color="#CC3333">Hero bets t75</font>, <font color="#CC3333">Button raises to t150</font>, Hero calls t75.

Turn: (t420) 9[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] <font color="#0000FF">(2 players)</font>
Hero checks, <font color="#CC3333">Button bets t420</font>, <font color="#CC3333">Hero goes all-in for t1510</font>

HokieGreg responded to my other post saying:
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i think your lead flop/check raise turn ai line advertises the strength of your hand more than just leading every street.

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I think he is right. So, should I flat call and lead turn? Is it criminal not to 3b (push?) flop? I want to extract maximum value, not fold him out.

Comments on either hand, any street welcome.