Wedding with 2 best men?

A S U · #1 04-19-2007, 04:23 PM

Rumor has is a buddy of mine is doing this. Pressure from fam and fiancee to have his brother be BM and he wants his best friend to be BM. So he's doing a joint thing. Anybody ever heard of this? Lame or normal?

Perplexity · #2 04-19-2007, 04:23 PM

standard

TheDudeAbides · #3 04-19-2007, 04:23 PM

I think it's lame and a cop-out. Why should he get a free pass when the rest of us had to make a tough decision?

mosdef · #4 04-19-2007, 04:29 PM

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Rumor has is a buddy of mine is doing this. Pressure from fam and fiancee to have his brother be BM and he wants his best friend to be BM. So he's doing a joint thing. Anybody ever heard of this? Lame or normal?

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He should be forced to designate one as "best" and one as "really good but not the best".

punkass · #5 04-19-2007, 04:29 PM

both lame and acceptable.

miajag · #6 04-19-2007, 04:30 PM

Never known anyone who did this but I don't see anything wrong with it.

4_2_it · #7 04-19-2007, 04:31 PM

Good thing you don't have 4 brothers.

Jbrochu · #8 04-19-2007, 04:34 PM

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Rumor has is a buddy of mine is doing this. Pressure from fam and fiancee to have his brother be BM and he wants his best friend to be BM. So he's doing a joint thing. Anybody ever heard of this? Lame or normal?

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I think it's lame. More than likely his fiancee and family are monopolizing just about every other damn decision about his wedding day. He needs to put his foot down on this one.

Slow Play Ray · #9 04-19-2007, 04:35 PM

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I think it's lame and a cop-out. Why should he get a free pass when the rest of us had to make a tough decision?

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who said you had to? you're just jealous.

*edit to add* i agree it's copout if he knew who he wanted but someone else made him do otherwise. i, however, am an indecisive prick (ask my gf who is in the process of dumping me) and would use 2 if necessary.

Dids · #10 04-19-2007, 04:38 PM

IIRC, Spanaway Vin had both of his brothers as best men at his wedding. Nobody died.

The [censored] part of the OP is that he's being forced to do it, and that's lame. However, if it's his choice, I think it's perfectly fine. Your wedding should be all about whatever the [censored] you want to make it.