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03-12-2007, 05:21 AM
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advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
I'm 25 and until recently have been in relationships since i was 19, so new to the single scene and am not looking to get into another relationship anytime soon.
I usually go out drinking with friends 1 or 2 nights a week, i've met a few cool girls when out and gotten numbers. I hate talking on the phone, much prefer talking in person. So if i decide i'd like to meet up with some girl again i will text her to see if she'd like to meet up later in the week. I've had mixed results... I prefer texting because it's more casual, i assume if a girls interested in meeting up again, she'll let me know. Do you think it matters? 
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#2
03-12-2007, 05:23 AM
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Re: advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
I prefer texting simply because I loathe talking to people on the phone. It seems like most girls enjoy it as well, but I'm that's from my experience and your mileage may vary.
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#3
03-12-2007, 05:25 AM
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Re: advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
If she wants to out with you she will.
Calling sometimes puts someone in a spot,if they cant really talk at that moment. Texting gives ample time to respond.
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#4
03-12-2007, 05:39 AM
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Re: advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
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If she wants to out with you she will. Calling sometimes puts someone in a spot,if they cant really talk at that moment. Texting gives ample time to respond. [/ QUOTE ] I agree, however last time i was single, texting wasn't as common... so just checking.
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#5
03-12-2007, 05:47 AM
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Re: advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
I like texting chicks because I am lazy as hell and hate talking to them. Mixed results as well, it really just depends how much the chick is already into you.
I think the more in demand the chick the less texting works.
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#6
03-12-2007, 06:18 AM
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Re: advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
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I think the more in demand the chick the less texting works. [/ QUOTE ] I've noticed that this seems very true. Also, i think i may be going about this all wrong. Usually when i text a girl to meet up again, it's something along the lines of i'm planning on going back to the bar where we met, you should come out. But i think that maybe girls interpret this as i just want an effortless lay, since it's only worked well on the easy ones. Not the less slutty girls i actually would like to get to know a little and go on a date with, before hooking up.
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#7
03-12-2007, 06:20 AM
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Re: advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
Texting makes me angry. I am very old and I refuse to change, cell phones still kinda weird me out. I'm not very pretty though, so you probably aren't missing out on much with me.
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#8
03-12-2007, 06:31 AM
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Re: advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
I'd say in a majority of cases it doesn't matter. In some of them, texting is even preferred to calling. Stick to the plan since you hate talking on the phone.
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03-12-2007, 07:05 AM
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Re: advice: texting or calling, does it matter?
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Texting makes me angry. I am very old and I refuse to change, cell phones still kinda weird me out. I'm not very pretty though, so you probably aren't missing out on much with me. [/ QUOTE ] How old are you, like 28?
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