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Old 01-25-2007, 11:28 AM
uberoval uberoval is offline
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Default Date tonight (blind variety) need help

Quick history: I am recently divorced and haven't been on a "date" in 10 years. The girl(victim) works with my buddies wife who set this fiasco up. I have already spoken with said "girl" twice this week on phone, first call lasted 1 hour and the second went 3 hours. She is very cool and we have waaay to many things in common. We are meeting up for sushi at Kona Grill @ 7:30 tonight. I didn't think i would be nervous but as it gets closer i am freaking out. Its been a loooong time to say the least. What should be my first move to "break the ice"?

And if you were about to ask, I have already turned off the shutter sound on the camera phone in preparation. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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Old 01-25-2007, 11:30 AM
Evan Evan is offline
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We are meeting up for sushi at Kona Grill @ 7:30 tonight

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Man, this is the level of information about a date I would never post online.
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Old 01-25-2007, 11:41 AM
Kneel B4 Zod Kneel B4 Zod is offline
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Default Re: Date tonight (blind variety) need help

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first call lasted 1 hour and the second went 3 hours.

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jesus man. my first move would have probably ban to save some of this for the date.

that said, it seems like a 'hug' (as gay as this sounds) is in order when you see her.
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Old 01-25-2007, 11:44 AM
Wes Mantooth Wes Mantooth is offline
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Default Re: Date tonight (blind variety) need help

If you already talked to her that much on the phone, just be yourself when you go out. Don't worry about "breaking the ice" you should be fine.
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Old 01-25-2007, 11:45 AM
The X-Factor The X-Factor is offline
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Default Re: Date tonight (blind variety) need help

I like giving a hug then a booty grab or something [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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Old 01-25-2007, 11:47 AM
DemonDeac DemonDeac is offline
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Default Re: Date tonight (blind variety) need help

are you nervous because you hope you find her attractive or because you don't know how to break the ice with a girl whom you've already talked to 4 hours on the phone?
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Old 01-25-2007, 11:48 AM
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Default Re: Date tonight (blind variety) need help

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I have already spoken with said "girl" twice this week on phone, first call lasted 1 hour and the second went 3 hours.

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Bring her back to your place to watch a movie asap.
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Old 01-25-2007, 11:54 AM
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And if you were about to ask, I have already turned off the shutter sound on the camera phone in preparation. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

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Good man.
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Old 01-25-2007, 11:58 AM
fslexcduck fslexcduck is offline
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first call lasted 1 hour and the second went 3 hours.

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jesus man. my first move would have probably ban to save some of this for the date.

that said, it seems like a 'hug' (as gay as this sounds) is in order when you see her.

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oh, if you're asking about physical contact - i disagree with hug.

you go for a half hug, kiss on the cheek move. incredibly standard for a first meeting (i've had quite a few internet dates).
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Old 01-25-2007, 12:07 PM
The X-Factor The X-Factor is offline
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So you do the ass out hug where you're trying not to get too close? Or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips? Its very difficult trying to read the situation and all the while you're just sitting there wondering if we are gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions. Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip" just for a second to see how it feels or "ouch ouch you're on my hair".
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