Broke Up with my GF tonight

[ImAKing]

Yea so tonight was gonna be the night that my now ex-girlfriend and me where gonna hook up...3 weeks ago when we met she game me a 3 week rule. sayingthat we can make-out, but nothing else. Then after 3 weeks everything goes.
So i sorta lost intrest in her like 3 days ago and i was talking to some friends for advice on when to break it off with her. Some said wait till she goes back to college and see if your feeling change and some said well just get her in the sac tonight then right after tell her to get out and never talk to her again.
I didnt go with either of the opinions instead as we are starting to hook up, and i cannot get what i want to tell her outta my mind. She can sense something is wrong and wants to know. So after a minute of deciding whether or not to do it, i tell her i do not like her anymore. She then turns over starts to cry and eventully leaves my apartment.

[pmdvert18]

sex her up, blow her off tomorrow

[The X-Factor]

I think you should have told her how you felt before she ever came over but I am a guy so I prolly would have hit it and then waited till she went off to school to tell her.

[steel108]

She is not your GF after 3 weeks (at least I hope not). You handled it like a stand up person. Nailing her would have been a dick move. If I was her friend, I would beat the [censored] out of you. Respect to you for showing her respect.

[ImAKing]

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She is not your GF after 3 weeks (at least I hope not).

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Long story short, i asked her if she was gonna be dating other guys along with me she said no. So then she asked me if i was gonna date other girls i said no prolly not. Then all the sudden she is like So I Am Your GF. I was liek oh umm yea.
sidenote--i guess she rushes into relationships alot...

[nickg1532]

pics?

[G_Dollaz]

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She is not your GF after 3 weeks (at least I hope not).

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Long story short, i asked her if she was gonna be dating other guys along with me she said no. So then she asked me if i was gonna date other girls i said no prolly not. Then all the sudden she is like So I Am Your GF. I was liek oh umm yea.
sidenote--i guess she rushes into relationships alot...

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no, no... that is YOUR bad. Always make it perfectly clear @ the beginning what you want, that is your responsibility. The girls always want more, it's on us to say "it's not a relationship." When they ask if you're going to date other girls, and you give that answer, it's on you, she gave u an oppurtunity to say yes.

[cuadpi]

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She is not your GF after 3 weeks (at least I hope not).

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Long story short, i asked her if she was gonna be dating other guys along with me she said no. So then she asked me if i was gonna date other girls i said no prolly not. Then all the sudden she is like So I Am Your GF. I was liek oh umm yea.
sidenote--i guess she rushes into relationships alot...

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no, no... that is YOUR bad. Always make it perfectly clear @ the beginning what you want, that is your responsibility. The girls always want more, it's on us to say "it's not a relationship." When they ask if you're going to date other girls, and you give that answer, it's on you, she gave u an oppurtunity to say yes.

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Nice answer. We definitely usually want more; and if we ask for more and you say yes, then you can't be surprised when we act as if you said yes.

[ActionFreak]

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Long story short, i asked her if she was gonna be dating other guys along with me she said no. So then she asked me if i was gonna date other girls i said no prolly not. Then all the sudden she is like So I Am Your GF. I was liek oh umm yea.


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wow. she completely owned you in this conversation

[barryc83]

Dude you are thinking way too hard. DEFINITELY have sex then break it off. Something along the lines of "you're just another notch on my bedpost" should do. WTF in telling her you don't like her before sex.