What to do? (girl crap - sorry!)

[kipin]

OK I'm in a bit of a quandary here.

Last night I went out to a bar with my roomate and met up with two of my best girlfriends, one of them had 2 of her friends from high school along with her who I'd never met.

I found one of them really attractive and was talking to her and she was leaning into me, rubbing my shoulder, overall good vibes.

Later in the night I offer to buy her a drink (non-standard for me, I normally don't buy chicks drinks, but I felt since I was already getting good vibes it couldn't hurt the situation).

After I buy her a drink, we end up on the dance floor of the bar and she ends up grinding on me, I think a good time was had by all.

At the end of the night, we all go our seperate ways but I make sure to ask for her number. She gives it to me, and makes sure that I know her name (I already did).

After we have left the bar my roomate informs me the chick I was talking to, dancing with etc, has a boyfriend. Now, she never let me know and was giving me compliments about my shirt, giving me good body language, smiling a lot, looking into my eyes, etc.

I have come to the conclusion that I should play the fool, and call her tomorrow or Sunday and ask her out on a date, tell her I enjoyed her company would like to get to know her better. Anyone here think that is a bad play or can offer me some words of wisdom for this kind of a situation?

[Dan.]

SIIHP.

But seriously, nothing's set in stone. Call her.

[By-Tor]

BF != husband.

Sounds like she is old enough to make her own desicions.

Show her the man-boobs dood.

[Dudd]

She gives you her number, grinds on you, never told you. Also, you are apparently a giant, and have no need to fear some boyfriend. Give her a call, don't let your roommate [censored] block you.

[SackUp]

I don't see the problem here. The girl gave you her number, call her.

She obviously does not have much, if any, commitment to her supposed b/f - so it is a non issue.

The only real issue comes at some point down the line if you get serious to make sure that she ditches any other fools. But this is something way down the line, so who cares.

You are both young - enjoy it! Don't get bogged down with the details.

[dknightx]

dont go on dates ...

[recondite7]

Don't bother, she is probably just a big flirt and you likely misread the situation.

[Spota]

Call her. Worst case is she says she has a BF. Maybe she was drunk, maybe she is on the outs with him, maybe that's just her personality, whatever it is you wont find out unless you call. Quit being a bitch and call her!

[kipin]

OK, I will definitely be calling her this weekend.

Probably Sunday.

Will provide updates.

[xxThe_Lebowskixx]

all is fair in love and war, but dont complain if he punchs you out in the future!