My "game" is very weak/tight, whats your line with this chick?

[shhhdonttellher]

WARNING: I know this will prob. be tl:dr for most of you, but I'd like some input for those of you with the time to kill.


I was at dance practice a few weeks ago (breakdance) where its usually all guys, when a hot little filipina girl came in. It turned out that she breaks too, and was accquainted with two of my friends who introduced me.
I just said "hi" and talked with here a little bit when offering advice on certain moves, but very little, and no flirting.
I could tell she was digging me at least a little bit from her eye contact. After practice we (me, her, my two friends) were talking in the parking lot and she suggests we go grab something to eat. So we did, I sat next to her and made some small talk, mostly about our experiences dancing.

Next 2 weeks at practice she is getting a lot more touchy feeling, pretending to punch me, or grabbing my arms, or helping each other stretch (ie: doing spread leg stretches while holding each others hands and pulling). She even made a couple of comments like "I didn't know you were that buff" when I changed shirts after practice.

At the next practice before we (me and my 2 friends) I asked her if she wants to go get something to eat with us again, but she sort of avoided answering "no" directly, by saying there was some people she didn't say bye to, and also the practice session was not finished yet.

I was kind of butt-hurt because she had seemed so flirty in previous weeks but didn't jump at the chance to do something after this time.

I kind of ignored her the next week because I didn't want to seem jocked or give her the idea that she has any power over me (though she obv. does).

Yes, this is kind of making a moutain out of a mole hill, but its hard for me to decide what to do next.

I want to go out/mess around with this girl but have a hard time initiating the flirting.
Lame as it sounds, I guess I'm looking for some solid standard flirty lines/actions to initiate when I draw blanks and start fearing rejection when I see her face to face.

Take it easy guys, help appraciated

[NT!]

pull her hair and smear food on her face

[man]

I guarantee that you will mess up any opening lines that you pick up from us if you can't come up with some yourself.

[NSchandler]

Why don't you just ask her out? Granted, you might have already ruined it by pussing out for weeks on end, but it doesn't hurt to try. If you ask her out and she says no, who cares? Any guy who makes fun of you for getting shot down is just embarrassed that he didn't have the balls to do it himself.

[bisonbison]

draw blanks and start fearing rejection when I see her face to face.

Insist on standing behind her.

[RunyonAve]

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I was at dance practice a few weeks ago (

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I stopped reading here.. OTT can't save you

[Apathy]

Ask her to go clubbing with you, you both dance anyways. Make sure its clear its not a group thing.

[Alobar]

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I want to go out/mess around with this girl...

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so then ask her out. Simple isnt it?

you didnt put your age in the post, but unless you are in like the 9th grade, wasting time flirting and pulling hair, is just wasting time. Shell find some other guy to open her legs for who actually has the balls to ask her out.

[Escape]

AShKetChuM don't you already have a GF?

[wslee00]

clubbing's a great idea - freak dancing and alcohol... great combination

and you can have it a group thing at the club, it's loud and you can always get your own private corner for a makeout session