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Instant Message HS crush
A couple questions:
Is there any way to check if I am on her AIM buddylist? How do I break the ice with a girl who I haven't talked to in 5 yrs. I don't even know if she lives in the same state as me. If I just say, "Hey [her name], whats up?" will that come off as stalkerish? Don't want to end up like Anacardo. I haven't even been on AIM at all in the passed years, but I still think about this girl especially now that I broke up with my gf. |
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Re: Instant Message HS crush
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Don't want to end up like Anacardo. [/ QUOTE ] Do tell. |
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Re: Instant Message HS crush
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[ QUOTE ] Don't want to end up like Anacardo. [/ QUOTE ] Do tell. [/ QUOTE ] For her to tell everybody within earshot what a creep I am, except in real life and not on a poker forum. I dunno if thats a rational worry to have though because Im not like that. I just think it might seem odd that I just message her randomly after so long with no contact. |
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Don't want to end up like jakethebake. [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: Instant Message HS crush
Dude its called find another girl whos situation with you doesnt force you to make some lame thread in oot about.
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Re: Instant Message HS crush
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Dude its called find another girl whos situation with you doesnt force you to make some lame thread in oot about. [/ QUOTE ] Well I wasn't forced to make a lame thread; just looking for advice. Also I am pursuing other girls, as for this one I still think about her now and then and she holds a place of higher importance in my heart/mind. You can say get over her, but I saw plenty of action in college and am still not over her. |
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Re: Instant Message HS crush
See more action?
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Re: Instant Message HS crush
When I find myself in this situation, I usually send them this:
Sometimes in life, you find a special friend; Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop; Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. ------------------ No but seriously, just go for it dude. Say something like "you popped into my head the other day and I thought I would drop you a line and see how you're doing." Plus for all you know she'd like to hear from you, and the fact that you made the effort will be a load off of your mind. |
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Re: Instant Message HS crush
You might try and find her on myspace/facebook first, because that sort of thing is pretty normal on social networking sites, but really, it ain't no thang.
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Re: Instant Message HS crush
Saying hi won't make you seem like a stalker. Most people have at least some desire to talk to old friends, she'll probably find it a pleasant surprise. In fact, asking her out to "catch up" would probably be a sure bet if you guys used to be at all close.
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