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05-18-2006, 02:04 AM
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Do you stop sleeping with a girl if she starts to like you?
You start having regular sex with a new-ish friend. You're not particularly attracted to her, but the sex is good and you're not interested in anything more. A week goes by and it's clear that she's starting to REALLY like you.
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#2
05-18-2006, 02:08 AM
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Re: Do you stop sleeping with a girl if she starts to like you?
It's all about how you present the relationship to her. If she thinks things are going somewhere, and you continue to let her think that while sleeping with her, you an a*s. If she knows there's no future, let the good times roll.
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05-18-2006, 02:19 AM
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Re: Do you stop sleeping with a girl if she starts to like you?
I want to vote for "break it off" but don't like your "feel guilty" part. Also, I'd be more likely to just be honest with the girl. "I like bangin you but I don't want to get serious with you. If you think we'll get serious, then we need to stop seeing each other."
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#4
05-18-2006, 02:49 AM
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Re: Do you stop sleeping with a girl if she starts to like you?
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It's all about how you present the relationship to her. If she thinks things are going somewhere, and you continue to let her think that while sleeping with her, you an a*s. If she knows there's no future, let the good times roll. [/ QUOTE ] No idea why that didn't occur to me at the time. Although perhaps it was because I just assumed that most girls would say it's okay, but then set themselves up to get hurt anyway.
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#5
05-18-2006, 02:53 AM
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Re: Do you stop sleeping with a girl if she starts to like you?
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[ QUOTE ] It's all about how you present the relationship to her. If she thinks things are going somewhere, and you continue to let her think that while sleeping with her, you an a*s. If she knows there's no future, let the good times roll. [/ QUOTE ] No idea why that didn't occur to me at the time. Although perhaps it was because I just assumed that most girls would say it's okay, but then set themselves up to get hurt anyway. [/ QUOTE ] then it becomes their problem and not yours. at least you were honest and forthcoming. you are in the clear then.
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05-18-2006, 02:53 AM
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Re: Do you stop sleeping with a girl if she starts to like you?
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I just assumed that most girls would say it's okay, but then set themselves up to get hurt anyway. [/ QUOTE ] This will often happen, but you're hands are clean if you've made it clear that you're not looking for "something more."
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#7
05-18-2006, 02:55 AM
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Re: Do you stop sleeping with a girl if she starts to like you?
The only thing that truly matters is what you are comfortable with
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#8
05-18-2006, 02:55 AM
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Re: Do you stop sleeping with a girl if she starts to like you?
From my experiences if you don't want to hurt her it's best to end it now. Because if you continue to have sex with her she will want the relationship, nothing you say or do will change her mind that a relationship might be right around the corner.
Although, personaly I would tell her I don't want a relationship and I still want to bang her. It's her own fault is she can't understand when you tell her you want this to only be physical.
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