Who Needs Laid? (longest hookup drought)

[guids]

I dont move around every 6 months, but I played poker for a living for about 3 years, and I currently I work about 5 hours a week doing restaurant work.


edit: and I was kidding about teh horsecock

[traz]

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Jesus Christ, what are you guys doing that makes sex so awkward and unpleasant that it's not even worth doing?

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[skunkworks]

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Jesus Christ, what are you guys doing that makes sex so awkward and unpleasant that it's not even worth doing?

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This? (NSFW)

[jh21hook]

To all the guys that are saying that talking to/hitting on girls is "uncomfortable"...that is the point I think alot of the other guys are making. Of course it is uncomfortable, change is a uncomfortable process. The first time I made a continuation bet with air I was terrified, but if I hadn't conditioned myself to it I would never have advanced my game. It is about personal growth. If you get to a point where you're comfortable with talking to and/or hitting on girls and then decide you want to sit back and wait for the right one...more power to you. If you don't, you need to acknowledge that it is a part of your life and personal growth cycle that is wanting. You will NEVER again be in a point in your life where the preponderance of women your age are unattached and looking without serious baggage to deal with(children from previous marriages, more serious than normal emotional issues). You are young, some degree of social/sexual interaction with women is normal and healthy. IMHO you should push yourself through the discomfort and embrace the things the are alien to you. If for no other reason than you won't have to look back in regret at an oppourtunity wasted but with the confidence of something in your life that you conquered and chose to abandon. Also IMHO, I think there is alot you will enjoy. Women can suck at times, but it doesn't change the fact that they are delightful and they need men just like men need them. She is gonna be spending time with someone, why shouldn't it be you?

[Ghazban]

guids,

You seem like a very social person overall (not just in terms of sex/hooking up/etc.); not everybody is. I'm perfectly happy spending time by myself doing things that interest me. I am completely comfortable going to dinner alone, going to movies alone, etc. and don't really feel any sort of *need* to socialize with other people.

This does not mean that I am uncomfortable or awkward in social situations. In the interests of full disclosure, I used to be and it bugged the hell out of me. Eventually, I got over it and I'm fine with how I get along with people now. For me, though, hanging out with people is not any more fun than doing things by myself. You seem to assume that all this social stuff is a blast for everybody once they figure out how to do it; well, for me it isn't. I do it once in a while but I have no desire to spend every night of the week at a club or party or whatever.

I will agree that there are a lot of people that are unhappy with their social awkwardness and really should bite the bullet and work on getting over that (because it clearly won't fix itself and they clearly feel they are missing out) but I don't agree that everybody needs to be that guy all the time (or even more often than rarely).

[jh21hook]

I absolutely agree with you.

I also agree that not every person posting here has "gotten over it" like you and I think it would be worth it for them to try.

It wasn't my intention to browbeat any of the posters, just to point out that there is value in embracing the things in life that we have yet to learn because you never know where it will lead. This life is not a dress rehersal, it is a one time shot...make the most of it.

[snagglepuss]

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Also I would like to note the strong correlation between you 'ass all the time' guys and the choice of an avatar featuring some sexy broad. I find this kinda LOL. Does this symbolize your commitment to ass? A celebration of its glories?

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"lol"

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This life is not a dress rehersal, it is a one time shot...make the most of it.

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Nice.

[guids]

I am very social yes, but I also really like my alone time, usually during the day, if Im not working, I talk to no one, and do all the stuff that I like to do alone (golf, art/history museum, workout, read etc), and at night I go out and socialize. Im not advocating anything but balance in the way you go about your life.

[siccjay]

Cardo,

I can promise you that none of these girls even remotely think I am their "boyfriend." I don't even talk to these girls on the phone ever. We MIGHT exchange a few texts every couple days or somethin, but no chance they think we are dating. The reason for this is I avoid the clingy, retarded ones.

I too am looking for what you are looking for, but I would rather get coochie while I am looking than beat it all the time. No offense.