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[Khabbi]

OP, you and your game clearly don't understand some of the basic principles of poker. You and your game would benefit from learning and adhering to the rules of poker.

I'd start by reading all the "You make the call" type posts here and in B&M. There are also some good discussions regarding rules on the homepokertourney site.

Then I would take a copy of Robert's Rules of poker and read those too once you have an understanding of how most players play this game.