My GF wants me to pick her up (am I an ass?)

[SuperUberBob]

If you keep picking her up now when she wants you to, she'll ask you more and more often to be picked up.

Say no from time to time and make up some sort of excuse (sickness, death in family, good TV show etc).

[ImAKing]

do u want her to get raped?

[CardSharpCook]

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If you keep picking her up now when she wants you to, she'll ask you more and more often to be picked up.

Say no from time to time and make up some sort of excuse (sickness, death in family, good TV show etc).

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that's a really passive-aggressive way of dealing with the situation....

[SamIAm]

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[SuperUberBob]

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If you keep picking her up now when she wants you to, she'll ask you more and more often to be picked up.

Say no from time to time and make up some sort of excuse (sickness, death in family, good TV show etc).

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To me, there are two other options:

1) Be her bitch and pick her up every time she asks
2) Tell her that you're only going to pick her up X times a week

The first obviously sucks because well...you're being whipped. The second sucks because you'll have a bitchy, pissy girl to deal with.

that's a really passive-aggressive way of dealing with the situation....

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[TS Clark]

Without having slogged through this whole thread, ask yourself if you would rather deal with a girl who is happy and thinks you are a decent guy, or with a girl who is pissy and thinks you are a selfish weasel?

Sounds like pretty easy math to me.

[suzzer99]

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. But if all she's doing is wanting a ride now and then from the man who's supposed to love her I don't see the problem.

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Have you ever lived in a city with no parking? I'd need to be losing blood before I give up my spot late at night. Broken bones can wait until morning.