Variance: Housemate doesn't beat off.

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So we're sitting around in the kitchen talking about this girl he is into.

Background: He is super odd, we think he has autism. Like,we gave did an online test as "him" and he was like 90%+ to have it. He is a nice guy, but is poor in social settings, has a long list of daily routines that he follows to the letter, can't do more than one thing at a time, has piss poor co-ordination and so on, so forth.

We get around to this chick he likes, although he has no chance. We're like "Dude, do you beat off over her facebook photos?" He says no, then we ask "how often do you beat off?" He replies never. We're all like wtf? He's 21, never had a gf or kissed a girl AFAIK.

Isn't this super-odd for a 21 year old male?

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its much more likely that he has asbergers which is a mild form of autism, which would lead to the no jerking off and bad problems with girls, especially if said roomy is hideous

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There is a certain percentage of people that are essentially asexual. Perhaps he falls into this category. I know that sounds like an easy explanation, but if he's not lying it could very well be true.

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i can attest to this, one of my good friends, one of the smartest people i know, is completely horrified by anything sexual. he covers his eyes during any sex scene in a movie, in 8th grade human development his face turned blue because he was so offset. he will tell everyone to shut up if they make too blatant of sexual jokes around him, and skipped 9th grade biology during the reproductive portion, some people just cannot stand anything sexual and are just wired differently

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Dude, this is not cool. That isn't asexuality, it's some kind of psychological issue. I agree with whoever it was said there's a decent chance he was abused as a kid.

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first of all it would have had to happen REALLY early because i have a friend who has known him since he was 5 years old and said he has always been like this, i really think he was just over sheltered, he also, though he has gotten better about this, reacted badly to blood in movies. since he has mostly gotten over this i have to imagine the sexual thing is just a develop-mental thing that he hasnt gotten over yet

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ur friends with this person? how does that reflect on u

and who the [censored] gets past like 7th grade without having kissed a girl. this guy seems hopeless

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Why wouldn't I be you [censored] douche bag?

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he might have social anxiety. he may have denied jerking it because he felt it was embarrassing to talk about in front of a group. you might be able to learn more about him if you talk to him privately.