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11-15-2006, 09:08 PM
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Re: My son wants to get laid
I'm 22, my gf lives with me (at my parents house). We almost never have sex now, even when no-ones home, etc, etc.
Before she moved in, we would have sex pretty much every time no-one was home, or no-one was awake, and even then sometimes we'd just park in an empty lot somewhere and get it on in my truck in broad daylight. Now that she lives with me, I could almost swear my parents have a more active sex life than us. (This is an entirely different topic on its own) Anyways, back to my point, your son is going to have sex whether you consent or not. My best advice is to tell him to be safe and that you are not going to facilitate it (what my parents told me). Basically, you're not going to ask questions, but your also not going to go out of your way to assist your sixteen year old son in having sexual relations. edit: oh, you're talking about making out, not sex.. let em explore i say. 
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#22
11-15-2006, 09:23 PM
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Re: My son wants to get laid
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I'm 22, my gf lives with me (at my parents house). [/ QUOTE ] LOL. [ QUOTE ] Now that she lives with me, I could almost swear my parents have a more active sex life than us.[/b] [/ QUOTE ] Awesome.
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#26
11-15-2006, 10:11 PM
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Re: My son wants to get laid
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] LOL. Awesome. [/ QUOTE ] The world is a better place when you live on your own. [/ QUOTE ] All college students can afford this. Sorry for continuing the derail, OP. [/ QUOTE ] Lol. I'm not the one who had to use a gimmick account to inform everyone I'm not getting laid and still live with Mommy.
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#27
11-15-2006, 10:58 PM
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Re: My son wants to get laid
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Lol. I'm not the one who had to use a gimmick account to inform everyone I'm not getting laid and still live with Mommy. [/ QUOTE ] Calm down tiger, I'm new. Check my post history or something if you need gratification. Sorry if my life isn't up to your brandy snifter and cohiba cigar standards.
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#28
11-16-2006, 01:24 AM
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Re: My son wants to get laid
Uh ok you should encourage sex. If he has hit puberty then it is ok to have sex end of story.
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#29
11-16-2006, 01:29 AM
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Re: My son wants to get laid
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[ QUOTE ] I'm not the one who had to use a gimmick account to inform everyone I'm not getting laid and still live with Mommy. [/ QUOTE ] Calm down tiger, I'm new. Check my post history or something if you need gratification. [/ QUOTE ] Hey ya'll stay outa my thread. Everybody else thanks a bunch for your input, I really appreciate the insights. The lack of driving was mentioned cause when that changes it opens up possibilites for the kids to "make out" away from home. As involved parents we always know where the kids are and who they're with. But with this new girlfriend I'm sure my son feels like he's constantly being monitored. Also while I'm certainly in favor of pre-maritial sex, I'm still not comfortable with saying to the 16 year olds "sure kids, close the doors, have some condoms, knock yourselves out". Thats a big change in the parent/child relationship.. and yes I'm sure if the girls parents found out they would be mad at us personally. Babies get old quick.. BB
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#30
11-16-2006, 01:55 AM
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Re: My son wants to get laid
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Thats a big change in the parent/child relationship.. [/ QUOTE ] It's one that will be coming around quickly in any case. Handling it gracefully is a big step in keeping the relationship strong and amicable. Of course at that age my mother was begging me to have sex simply because it would involve interacting with another human being. Needless to say that wasn't very graceful either. In the end I would probably have no relationship with my parents now if it weren't for my GF. So don't forget to keep her happy too.
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