Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?

[odellthurman]

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I have passed up hooking up w/ girls many times because I know some guy WHO THEY DON'T LIKE AT ALL has a big crush on them and would feel really bad if I hooked up w/ the girl.

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Many times? Are you serious?

[J_V]

Great thread. Op, you rule. I hope you find another girl of your dreams.

[Vehn]

I dont really get the hate for the guy's friend here, IMO it shows a dichotomy between the right and wrong ways to be looking at women. Clearly the guy was never a very good friend to BIMO anyways. Clearly the chick was either never into him sexually at all or he screwed it up that night by not manning up and making a move. And to be totally frank, clearly BIMO doesn't really care that much about women as he does not take care of himself physically.

[Burdzthewurd]

Almost,

How can I cockblock him if I never had any say in the matter? (had he asked, I would have just left, but yeah I'd feel the same)

Others,

Unfortunately I did not have my breathalyzer there, but he had just thrown up/wasn't stumbling around or slurring words like he does when he's really wasted, so him not being aware of what was going on isn't feasible.

In terms of confrontation, not going to happen in person, as I'm not driving four hours to tell anyone off or kick someone's ass over this. For now, I'm gonna listen to some melancholy grunge music, go do some kickboxing, and eventually hear if he is sorry or just says "you snooze you looze haha". Being a Cancer sucks though

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[J_V]

Depending on how hot this girl is, you only have so long. It was probably clear to everyone but you that you weren't ever gonna get said chick.

He probably shouldn't hook up with the girl, but it's not the worst crime ever. You definitely should not bring it up and move on.

[Austiger]

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Depending on how hot this girl is, you only have so long. It was probably clear to everyone but you that you weren't ever gonna get said chick.

He probably shouldn't hook up with the girl, but it's not the worst crime ever. You definitely should not bring it up and move on.

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Staying friends with the guy and not bringing it up is the worst advice yet.

[samjjones]

[rjoefish]

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Sh** happens? Give me a break, that's just an excuse you use later as justification for the fact that you knowingly [censored] your friend over

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Use later?

For what? Your post does not make sense.

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use later to justify [censored] over your friend, it's in the first post

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How can OP use it later to [censored] over his friend?

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lol, I really hope you're just [censored] with us and not actually this retarded. The 'you' in the OP is the friend, he's going to use the '[censored] happens' excuse to knowingly [censored] over OP. I can't believe I'm typing this out, I'd say you're leveling everyone, but it just looks like you're dumb. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[KotOD]

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I know you're just messing with him Kot, but I feel like I should help out and explain it.

the "you" in his first post was "the dirtbag friend". "[censored] happens" is just an excuse for the dirtbag friend to use later, because he knwoingly [censored] his friend over."

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AHhhh, I see. I'm speaking from Burds POV. [censored] happens, life is random. Move on.

[samjjones]