Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?
 

Backstory: I've been best friends with this guy since freshman year in college (we'll call him John). He introduced me to his then-girlfriend's little sister Anna. I am 19 at time, she is 17. We hit it off but don't see each other that much due to distance (2 hours or so). Years pass and we grow closer as friends with some innocent flirting or so.

It's 3 years later, and she comes to meet me at my best friend's flat for the night. We both had feeling for each other, but everytime we were alone, we would get close to each other, then she'd pull away and start drinking again (she's really drunk, I am intoxicated but not beyond acting myself). My best friend is buzzed but not drunk. He tried to give us alone time to no avail.

We all head to bed around 3. I get up to take a piss and notice the door to her guest room is open and she isn't there. I go to the bathroom, which is next to my best friend's room. I hear them both moaning loudly. Obvious what's going down.

I'm not a violent guy, and beating his brains out won't do anything for me emotionally. What sort of approach do I take in confrontation though? Yes I'll listen to what he has to say, but nothing justifies what he did. Maybe it's stupid since I don't ever plan on talking to him or her or anyone they know again, but letting him off the hook is unacceptable, I'm only human.

What would many of you do here? Also mods, please don't move this to BBV, it's just this has not happened to any of my close friends and I have no idea how to deal with this. Thanks.

Re: Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?
 

Hate the girl.
Hate your game.
Hate your oneitis.
Don't hate your friend, yo...

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YOU PLAN ON NEVER TALKING TO YOUR BEST FRIEND OR THIS GIRL OR ANYONE THEY KNOW AGAIN BECAUSE THEY [censored] WHILE DRUNK? ENJOY YOUR FRIENDLESS LOVELESS LIFE YOU DESERVE IT.

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Had you told him that you were completely in love with this girl?

Had you told her that you were completely in love with her?

Had you and the girl talked about any possibility of 'you two' before?

As much as this crushes you, unless all three of those things happened, I can't see you having anyone to be mad at really.

Nothing worse though, sorry man. Go pick up another hottie and enjoy yourself.

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sick man

he slept with both sisters?

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Call Puck from The Real World season 3. Trust me, you won't be sorry.

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Had you told him that you were completely in love with this girl?

Had you told her that you were completely in love with her?

Had you and the girl talked about any possibility of 'you two' before?

As much as this crushes you, unless all three of those things happened, I can't see you having anyone to be mad at really.

Nothing worse though, sorry man. Go pick up another hottie and enjoy yourself.

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Yes to all of those. She wanted to "see what would happen" last night.

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Had you told him that you were completely in love with this girl?

Had you told her that you were completely in love with her?

Had you and the girl talked about any possibility of 'you two' before?

As much as this crushes you, unless all three of those things happened, I can't see you having anyone to be mad at really.

Nothing worse though, sorry man. Go pick up another hottie and enjoy yourself.

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Yes to all of those. She wanted to "see what would happen" last night.

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Explain what she meant by 'see what would happen last night' please. With you (two)?

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did he even know you liked her so much?

if he did, then i'd punch him.

i mean, talking to him and being like "wow, you shouldn't have slept with the girl i liked," won't accomplish anything. i mean come on, you think he didn't know that already? what's he gonna say? "ORLY"?

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She wanted to "see what would happen" last night.

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And that she did [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]