Massage from a dude ... OK?

[hawk59]

just watch out when he tells you to frip ova

[Aytumious]

It's my experience that male masseurs give much better handjobs. YMMV.

[Runkmud]

Just ask for a female. The only time I've ever gotten a massage by a guy was in Japan. I had been there for a total of two hours, was in serious pain, and didn't know enough Japanese to request a female. Damn good massage though.

[XXXNoahXXX]

Unless its for some specific sports related or physical therapy massage, you have every right to ask for a girl. I would.

[KOTLP]

"Jerry, I think it moved"

[wisehandpoker]

I don't think anyone would think any less of you if you just went to the counter and said you'd feel more comfortable with a woman.

[poker-penguin]

My view is you're quite homophobic - just because a man touches you doesn't mean you're gay.

Whether what you did was right or not depends what you want from the massage. If you just want to be rubbed by a hot girl, that's fine, maybe your wife should have got you strip club vouchers instead.

Personally, I'd feel more comfortable getting a massage from a guy (they generally have stronger hands, and are often better at what they do because they don't get any benefit from the "well a hot girl is rubbing me" effect) and because I'm secure in my sexuality I won't feel worried I'm going to become gay.

[beenben]

Ill take the massage therapist with the most training, regardless of gender because that has the best results. but given two people with the same training, I'll take a girl, thanks.

[imitation]

If I want a goood massage I would prefer a man (like a sports massage) or a very experienced strong women. If it's more a relaxing foot massage I like a cute girls who's boobs I can look at when I get bored of the tv. If it's a happy ending I want the best you got.

[DavidC]

No big deal, just politely refuse the "twisty turny".