Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[Felix_Nietzsche]

You could not possibly gather this without observing the situation first hand.
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Partialy true.
When I play poker I play percentages. And the percentages tell me that you are being used by her. Sorry to burst your bubble but your situation is FAR-FROM-UNIQUE. Many men have been in your position as the wanna-be-boyfriend to a woman that enjoys the attention so she strings you along while screwing other men.

You just don't want to face facts. Be a man. Stop calling her and find a girlfriend. If she really does care she will call you. If she does call, tell her you want to date her exclusively (this is a test to see where you stand). If she says yes, more power to you my friend. If she gives you a long bull**** speech how your really "special" blah-blah (aka NO!).....then it is time to tell her if you can't date, then it would be best not to see each other for a while (translation: NEVER initiate a call to her. If she never calls you, then you know where you stood all along).

I'm suspect I'm at least 15 years older than you and I have seen this situation hundreds of times. This is why I can speak confidently on this situation based on the few facts you provided. This is a VERY common situation..... I speak from experience.

The average woman can pummel a man twice her size emotional 10 times over. Many men lack the skills to protect themselves and you are one of these men. Stop calling her and get a real girlfriend. From my experience if you want a woman to be your GF, then sleep with her as soon as you can. My success rate in doing this is about 95% so again I speak from experience...

[HubertCumberdale]

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public plea to the moderators to shut this down right now

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you got what you deserved. everyone save the my space link in case this gets deleted.

[Alexisonfyre]

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unless i'm faster than you and removed important people from my friends list..I forget, is it top SEVEN friends or top 8?

[/ QUOTE ]Yeah, lol. That's exactly why we're gonna look for every chick in your friends' profiles hahahahaha... jk

[NickPappagiorgio]

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public plea to the moderators to shut this down right now

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you got what you deserved. everyone save the my space link in case this gets deleted.

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What exactly does he deserve?

[bigt2k4]

who is this?

[Alexisonfyre]

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who is this?

[/ QUOTE ]rofl

BTW, Lafayette shirts suck.

[Doc7]

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who is this?

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freshman year, try again

[bigt2k4]

how about this?
furthermore?

[Alexisonfyre]

bigt2k4 = awesome

Edit: Don't think this is her, she has a boyfriend + 2 roommates.

[Felix_Nietzsche]

She told me I could kiss her...I let the episode of family guy end...she started another one....2 hours later....she left, let me know on the way out that i "need to grow some balls, next time we get drunk we will hook up".
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This is a key piece of information.

Growing Some Balls
Translation: I like you and but I can't be in a long term relationship with someone that lets me run over them. I need someone that will stand up for themselves and call me on my bull****. If you can 'man-up' and tell me when I piss you off then MAYBE we could be with eachother....

This phrase works very well for me when a women disrespects me, "I don't like the way your talking to me!" After that follow the wisdom of a shampoo bottle 'rinse-and-repeat'. Say it about 3 to fours times in a controlled and slightly angry voice and that smooths over the problem quite nicely. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

It is OK to be a little selfish in realtionships and ask for what you want and tell people off when they tick you off. If you can lose this emotional-drunken-infatuation with her and replace it with a selfish determination to get what you want.....then things could work out.