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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
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To get rid of the kids so she can go shopping or get her hair done makes me happy that she never had any. [/ QUOTE ] After this, I couldn't take anymore of your post seriously. |
#82
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
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[ QUOTE ] To get rid of the kids so she can go shopping or get her hair done makes me happy that she never had any. [/ QUOTE ] After this, I couldn't take anymore of your post seriously. [/ QUOTE ] I think we're beating a dead horse with some of these people, FFK. Some people take marriage seriously, and commit their lives to it, and some don't, I guess. To some of these people, it would seem that the only purpose for a wife is to have kids. You then love your kids unconditionally, but the wife is expendable. Whatever. |
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
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[ QUOTE ] To get rid of the kids so she can go shopping or get her hair done makes me happy that she never had any. [/ QUOTE ] After this, I couldn't take anymore of your post seriously. [/ QUOTE ] For realz. Everyone knows that you don't get your hair done; you get your hair did. |
#84
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
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[ QUOTE ] To get rid of the kids so she can go shopping or get her hair done makes me happy that she never had any. [/ QUOTE ] After this, I couldn't take anymore of your post seriously. [/ QUOTE ] Ya, I totally apologize for my post. I got mad when I read the OP and the first few posts. I hate to hear about kids suffering and when a family member has the ability to help but decides not to I go on superlifetilt. Didn't read through the whole thing and hear about the rest of the story. Sounds like OP knows whats right for his situation. If I were in his shoes and my wife asked me to choose I would keep the kids and it's not close. Mostly because if I did send them to foster care our marriage would be doomed for bitterness. Good luck OP. Hope your mother gets custody and the kids have some stability. Tuco. |
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] To get rid of the kids so she can go shopping or get her hair done makes me happy that she never had any. [/ QUOTE ] After this, I couldn't take anymore of your post seriously. [/ QUOTE ] I think we're beating a dead horse with some of these people, FFK. Some people take marriage seriously, and commit their lives to it, and some don't, I guess. To some of these people, it would seem that the only purpose for a wife is to have kids. You then love your kids unconditionally, but the wife is expendable. Whatever. [/ QUOTE ] Get off your horse. Choosing your wife over your kids doesn't make your opinion any better than mine. I understand your postion, but the fact that you can't understand someone who would choose kids over wife tells me that you aren't reasonable. Tuco. |
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
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Get off your horse. Choosing your wife over your kids doesn't make your opinion any better than mine. I understand your postion, but the fact that you can't understand someone who would choose kids over wife tells me that you aren't reasonable. [/ QUOTE ] RoundGuy is not worth debating with, quite immature with responses like this [ QUOTE ] I've got 8 inches of seriousness for you. Bend over and let me show you who the man is.... [/ QUOTE ]. He says he prays too. Go figure... |
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
I think that we need to differentiate between clearly sarcastic responses like the one above and RoundGuy's attempts to actually contribute to the thread. I value one more highly than the other but one is not the standard by which the other should be judged.
I think you guys should all cool it until we get some updates from eddie, all this speculation is mostly pointless back-and-forth about personal preferences. |
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
quick update
Spoke with the Social Worker this morning. She is going to try very hard to get things expedited for my mother's petition. She said it's very hard to expedite things involving Children who are not in Danger. Also Booked a trip to Corpus Christi Texas for over the Holiday weekend (Thanksgiving) My wife loved it when we went there 5 years ago. I used to live there so I have Friends there. Can't really afford the Cruise thing right now (christmas is coming and we just bought a house in July). I didn't tell my wife about the Trip but I did call the Boss to get here a day before the Holiday and after off. |
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
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I didn't tell my wife about the Trip but I did call the Boss to get here a day before the Holiday and after off. [/ QUOTE ] This is awesome... you sound like a very thoughtful man. |
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Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
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[ QUOTE ] I didn't tell my wife about the Trip but I did call the Boss to get here a day before the Holiday and after off. [/ QUOTE ] This is awesome... you sound like a very thoughtful man [/ QUOTE ] Custom title needed here I think. |
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