Re: Wife offers deal
Marriage or simlar crap(we have lived together for 13 years) only works if you can talk... You can have any number of accounts or budgets or whatever suits your personalities, but if you can't say "we can't afford that" or you have to hide stuff, it is going to fail(or the worst it will fail and you will stay together) The OP says he has lots of money but bankroll issues.... which means Money Management issues.... which can cause stress in relationships... avoid the stress.... They seem to have talked(already ahead of most couples) and came up with a plan... It wouldn't work for us, but we are wackos..so whatever.. THE PRoblems I see are 1)the money is too little for variance and 2) their plan will keep it that way.. Maybe try this to start... talk about reloading(if, when, how much) and plan to keep the first 10K-15K before the sharing. Or 70/30 until up to 10K+ then 30/70 family. Orginal plan sounds like it will lead to either a conflict or change down the road.. Try to get a better plan early... [img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] PS avoid relationship advice from single 18 year guys that spend 60+ hours a week staring at a computer and think just because they know how to repeatedly use thier right hand, they know anything about a relationship. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
But for poker advice listen to them, ignore me.
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