wow. Ok I don't want to get into a long winded post here so I'll keep it brief - rape is one of the worst things that can happen to a womans mental health, I had an ex who was raped and it did a number on her head/emotions. They feel, among other things, like soiled goods. Of course you can't paint all women with the same brush, some have the mental strength to overcome being raped and put it completely behind them, others don't and hold onto it for life.
ALso, there was a big thread about this topic about a year ago posted here by sklansky, he basically asserted that rape in the case of a prostitute is closer to theft than it is to rape IIRC.
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here's the post