Awkward situation with my buddy, his GF, and my Ex

[Poofler]

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I've stayed out of it because I live 2000 miles away, don't want to get involved, and feel that I shouldn't. However, I have told Blair what I know, and expect that she doesn't reveal me as the all-knowing third party. I'm playing Devil's advocate, and keeping my mouth shut.

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???

Agree on the just stay out of it. Not because snitches get stitches - just don't feel obligated to put yourself through their crap.

[Ditch Digger]

You nullified your friendship with Miguel when you ratted him out. Bros before ho's.

[mookboi]

Bros before hoes, despite being beat to it by post above me.

Seriously, wtf, how is this even a question?

[Ser William]

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We've been ratted out boys. Watch it.

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[HighandDry]

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Bros before hoes, despite being beat to it by post above me.

Seriously, wtf, how is this even a question?

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I told my ex for two reasons:
1. We're still very close, and best friends, and she is a very loyal and trustworthy person.

She's not going to tell Brittany that I was the one who confirmed her suspicion. Blair pretty much knew all along that Miguel was likely cheating, just wanted confirmation.

I gave her confirmation under the understanding that she WOULD NOT out me.

Blair told Brittany that a "reliable" source confirmed, she hasn't said my name, and I don't believe Brittany would think that I'm the source.

If I do get outed, I get outed. Miguel has become less and less a worthy friend. There's obviously more to the story, but I'm not too fond of a person who calls my GF "Scarface" referring to her facial [censored] ups from a very very serious car wreck, and multiple facial re constructive surgeries. Very childish.

Not to mention, he has no morals, and isn't a very decent human being. Sucks when you divulge too much info, and lie straight to the faces of your friends and partner...

[El Diablo]

OP,

This isn't an awkward situation, because she already has been told by someone who was very close to her.

If she didn't know and was getting tricked and screwed over and she's someone you care about, it's a tough spot for you.

But the fact that she has already been told makes it crystal clear what you need to do - nothing.

[LazyBob]

pics of "scarface" or it didnt happen

[Runkmud]

Sadly, nothing you can do. If Brittany doesn't believe Blair, you adding your voice won't matter. People are delusional when it comes to love. Wish Brittany the best of luck and go your seperate ways.

[KUJustin]

I must be some kind of idiot, but I absolutely think you should tell her. I think most of the good reasons for keeping your mouth shut are selfish.

[mbillie1]

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Bros before hoes, despite being beat to it by post above me.

Seriously, wtf, how is this even a question?

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qft on all counts