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08-28-2007, 12:59 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
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You're not dating. Make sure he knows that though. [/ QUOTE ] lol @ me I have zero clue what this is supposed to mean. Yugoslav 
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#12
08-28-2007, 01:00 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
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[ QUOTE ] I think all women posting in OOT should be required to identify themselves as such at the beginning of a post like this. [/ QUOTE ] Agree 100%. Without these lines - "Without sounding like a crazy girl" and the "sloot," I would still be thinking this person was posting about a homosexual relationship developing in OOT. [/ QUOTE ] QFT
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#13
08-28-2007, 01:01 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
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[ QUOTE ] I think all women posting in OOT should be required to identify themselves as such at the beginning of a post like this. [/ QUOTE ] Agree 100%. Without these lines - "Without sounding like a crazy girl" and the "sloot," I would still be thinking this person was posting about a homosexual relationship developing in OOT. [/ QUOTE ] So? I actually don't think changes anything too much. The OP really needs to identify her own expectations/wants though before any course of action can be determined. I actually started responding before realizing OP *was* a girl (skimmed post), then saw the follow up posts and reread it for the "acting like a crazy girl" part. My response barely changed at all. Yugoslav
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#14
08-28-2007, 01:01 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
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Also when I say I don’t care if we are dating I really don’t care. [/ QUOTE ] sure you don't, thats why you made this post [ QUOTE ] I just don’t want to feel bad about going out for dinner with someone else or what have you. [/ QUOTE ] you shouldn't, he isn't basically whats going on is he is banging some girl from work, and thats about where it ends for him. If he wanted a relationship, you would have known about it by now. So the only thing thats going to happen if you bring it up is you are going to be "the crazy girl". So if you truly are fine with things, then just keep doing what your doing, and do whatever else you want with whoever else you want whenever else you want. If you want more, then you have to express to him your interests, get over the fear of looking like some crazy girl for letting him know you like him. There is absolutely nothing wrong with liking someone and letting them know that, the reason its got a label is because guys are [censored] and want to just keep boning a girl without having to do "all that other stuff" so they make any girl who wants more feel stupid for doing so. also, I was really dissapointed by your post, cuz I didnt realize you were a girl until after the first paragraph and it was so much more exciting when it was a gay advice thread [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
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#15
08-28-2007, 01:02 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
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What's bringing this worry on all of a sudden? Or have you been feeling this way since you first slept together? Yugoslav [/ QUOTE ] I had someone ask me out this week. I would have said no anyway but it brought up the question in my mind. I guess also beacuse its coming up on the two month mark of us sleeping together. It just feels like a long time to not know where you stand.
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#17
08-28-2007, 01:06 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
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[ QUOTE ] Also when I say I don’t care if we are dating I really don’t care. [/ QUOTE ] sure you don't, thats why you made this post [/ QUOTE ] The last boy I dated was uber sensitive and told me that I broke his heart after we had gone out for dinner twice. I just dont want to hurt anyones feelings.
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#18
08-28-2007, 01:08 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
Ways to tell if the guys going to get hurt -
he doesn't have much dating history (you will destroy him regardless since everything is the 'real' deal) he calls regularly even when you don't return his calls - greater than 1.5:1 ratio (he likes you more than you like him, he'll get hurt) he says 'I love you' but doesn't try to sleep with you that night. (he's done)
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#19
08-28-2007, 01:08 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Also when I say I don’t care if we are dating I really don’t care. [/ QUOTE ] sure you don't, thats why you made this post [/ QUOTE ] The last boy I dated was uber sensitive and told me that I broke his heart after we had gone out for dinner twice. I just dont want to hurt anyones feelings. [/ QUOTE ] sounds like an emo loser
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#20
08-28-2007, 01:08 PM
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Re: What’s my play?
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So, he was busy last weekend & is going out of town this weekend...hmm...does that tell you anything?? [/ QUOTE ] I know he was busy last weekend. He was coaching kids hockey at a summer camp. And he has had a trip planed for next weekend for months. So no. Not really Maybe that he's a busy guy...
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