OT: [censored] thread, August, READ RULES IN TOP POST

[Kibby]

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Hey Yugo-

Since you seem to be the man around here about these things, how about giving me some advice? I'm 28 and got this smoking 21 year old's number last weekend. We only talked for about 5 minutes and she had to go but told me to take her number. I'm loving this. So I call her a few days later, leave a lame message on her voicemail and she never calls back. So whatever. I don't tend to have problems meeting girls or getting their numbers, its the call back thing I don't get. Advice on making that work? Basically I need to make my messages to call back less lame or something. In college, I used to only give my number out and that worked pretty well but I'm not sure about that now that I'm all grown up and [censored].

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Eh, you can only do so much with a 5 min conversation. The flake % is simply quite high unless you seed an activity/future time together when you meet. I tend to leave uber short messages like "Yo [nickname for chick, if no nickname their actual name]. Omg I just saw the funniest thing, ok gotta jet kiddo." Something v simple like that.

I'd give her another call and be prepared to leave a short, carefree, message.

Yugoslav

[/ QUOTE ]HA! Well I got one part right. She introduce herself as 'Kristina with a K' and I started the message with, 'Hey, Kristina with a K. Its Kibby from Catus Club. blah blah blah.'

I was thinking about texting her next with some fun pic / comment thinking that text conversations are easier to have. . . thoughts? Or I could try a standard, 'Need a woman's opinion that I don't know. . .' though that's the sort of intro line I used but she probably won't remember that anyways. . .

Normally I wouldn't call her a second time but 1) she is quite cute. 2) made it clear she thought I was attractive and wanted me to have her number before leaving 3) is 21 and gave tons of fun vibes out.