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08-20-2007, 02:12 PM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] You guys are seriously advocating calling the police? what are you nuts? Besides teh fact that they wont do anything, the OP is the one making threats, not the ex. The Ex is just looking for some poon, OP is an insecure 16 year old trying to pick a fight. ps- OP, your gf is a drama queen. [/ QUOTE ] This quote "she has been trying to do this for a while, but he is really hung up. " made me think that this is more harrassment than jilted love. It's possible that "a while" means different things to Dave and I. [/ QUOTE ] my girlfriend's exboyfriend has apparently been attempting to drunk-dial here late at night a few times recently... [/ QUOTE ] OP - which is it? Has she been drunk dialed a few times or has this been going on for a longer period of time? The answer lies within the contradiction. 
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#42
08-20-2007, 02:14 PM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] You guys are seriously advocating calling the police? what are you nuts? Besides teh fact that they wont do anything, the OP is the one making threats, not the ex. The Ex is just looking for some poon, OP is an insecure 16 year old trying to pick a fight. ps- OP, your gf is a drama queen. [/ QUOTE ] This quote "she has been trying to do this for a while, but he is really hung up. " made me think that this is more harrassment than jilted love. It's possible that "a while" means different things to Dave and I. [/ QUOTE ] my girlfriend's exboyfriend has apparently been attempting to drunk-dial here late at night a few times recently... [/ QUOTE ] OP - which is it? Has she been drunk dialed a few times or has this been going on for a longer period of time? The answer lies within the contradiction. [/ QUOTE ] true. Im betting that the OP is really what is going on though, and not the after thought to try and justify his actions.
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#43
08-20-2007, 02:58 PM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
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[ QUOTE ] When I was dating my now-wife about 12 years ago, same thing happened. My first reaction was in line with your thoughts, but I eventually asked her to deal with it. Having the girl flat out say she's done with the ex and is involved with you is for sure the way to go. [/ QUOTE ] So she dealt with it and there was never another problem? Man, that would have been nice. [/ QUOTE ] If it didn't happen that way, I imagine I'd not be married to her now.
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#44
08-20-2007, 03:17 PM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
Your girlfriend will deal with it...... if she wants to.
Out of all the girls I know me included the only ones that called or texted their Ex's back were girls that still wanted their Ex's or wanted big time revenge. She might still be hung up and you might be the tool to try and make her ex jealous. Or she is trying to hurt him the way he hurt her. Either way you don’t want to be in the middle. It’s not pretty but girls who get hurt are very vindictive. If she was really upset about him calling/texing she would have done something about it the first time.
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#47
08-20-2007, 03:52 PM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
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[ QUOTE ] pics of ex-bf? [/ QUOTE ] I'd rather see the GF. Let's see if she is worth all the hassle. [/ QUOTE ] Yes pics of this girl plz... the easiest answer may be dump the girl.
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#48
08-20-2007, 04:03 PM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] pics of ex-bf? [/ QUOTE ] I'd rather see the GF. Let's see if she is worth all the hassle. [/ QUOTE ] Yes pics of this girl plz... the easiest answer may be dump the girl. [/ QUOTE ] I'm guessing she's at least marginally attractive. Why would a guy stalk some ugly broad? But yeah, pics plz.
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#49
08-20-2007, 04:21 PM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
dude...the ex probably could care less about fighting you...all he wanted was some ass when he was wasted...we all have been there and done that...just let it go...But, because you have proposed your involvement, this whole situation might get a little personal...The EX is probably going to keep drunk-dialing/texting to piss you and your GF off...you have to either A) Beat his ass or B) Let her handle it
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