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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
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Of what exactly does your love consist that is so ephemeral? Now I love you now I don't? This must be code for got tired of banging her way sooner than I thought I would. Sorry you're so broken up about it though, champ. [/ QUOTE ] ever been in love? |
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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
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[ QUOTE ] Of what exactly does your love consist that is so ephemeral? Now I love you now I don't? This must be code for got tired of banging her way sooner than I thought I would. Sorry you're so broken up about it though, champ. [/ QUOTE ] ever been in love? [/ QUOTE ] A couple of times in the past 20 years. It never just stopped one day. |
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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
obviously i didnt wake up today and say, "hmm dont love my girlfriend anymore."
its been a gradual process for the last few months. |
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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
Good job moving in with her then.
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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
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obviously i didnt wake up today and say, "hmm dont love my girlfriend anymore." its been a gradual process for the last few months. [/ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] just moved in together 3 weeks ago... [/ QUOTE ] |
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The longest post you've made so far in here was three lines. With lots of ellipses.
Step it up; if there are any juicy details, hearing them time is upon us. |
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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
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[ QUOTE ] obviously i didnt wake up today and say, "hmm dont love my girlfriend anymore." its been a gradual process for the last few months. [/ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] just moved in together 3 weeks ago... [/ QUOTE ] [/ QUOTE ] yah i know it sounds stupid, but she had to move out of her parents house, and my lease was up at my last apartment so we needed to move in together. i wanted to give it a shot anyway since it has been almost 5 years and i didnt want to throw it away so soon. living together made me make up my mind. there's other stuff too like she wants to settle down and have kids, where as i want to travel and dont want kids. also, her dads been sick for the better part of our relationship, and ive stuck it out, but its very emotionally draining on her and me and i couldnt do it anymore. |
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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
moving in together is a ridiculously stressful and challenging experience for even a really good relationship. my girlfriend and i never had a serious fight in a year or so of dating until we moved in together, then we argued all the time for a while. it's hard.
your relationship was probably doomed anyway but moving in with one another when you don't even really want to and then breaking it off because it sucks is stupid. |
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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
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...moving in with one another when you don't even really want to and then breaking it off because it sucks is stupid. [/ QUOTE ] I don't know about this. When it's been five years you do whatever you think you can to save it. In truth, I would have done the same thing. On the bright side, thank goodness the solution to save the relationship wasn't: "Hey, let's have a baby!" Sorry bro. You'll be back. |
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Re: just broke up with girlfriend of 5 years.
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[ QUOTE ] ...moving in with one another when you don't even really want to and then breaking it off because it sucks is stupid. [/ QUOTE ] I don't know about this. When it's been five years you do whatever you think you can to save it. In truth, I would have done the same thing. On the bright side, thank goodness the solution to save the relationship wasn't: "Hey, let's have a baby!" Sorry bro. You'll be back. [/ QUOTE ] thanks. |
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