OOT:Decide the fate of my relationship

[Case Closed]

david,

She's cute and all, but not enough to date if you feel like this.

[amplify]

She looks intelligent, I like her.

[Turkish]

Think of it this way, if the roles were reversed, what do you think she would do?

Well, I'll take a stab,..She wouldn't break up with you, oh no, not until she had another guy locked up or had already cheated on you in college. Chances are, you wouldn't find out about it until far after the fact. Most likely, she would be really weird for a month and wouldn't tell you why, then just about when you are ready to drive up and kill the b*#*@ for being crazy, she breaks down and tells you she hasn't been faithful. Obviously, this is hypothetical as no guy i know or am has ever gone through something like this.

In summary, you can't just dump her or not dump her. This is your chance to win one for the guys so, get creative!

[elwoodblues]

If you are asking OOT to decide the fate, then it is already over.

[Jasper109]

Well, I was 18 when Jimmie Carter was president, but I'll take a stab at this.

Unless you are madly in love with this girl to the point of it sucking to not see her for like 12 hours, I think you should break up with her and have a great time at college.

If this is a choice that you are even considering, the answer seems extremely obvious.

[omgitsmatt]

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Been a long time since my stint at college, but I do remember anything having to do with HS is considered mega-
lame....ecspecially a HS GF. Ditch all you HS stuff and start college fresh.

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Yeah, this. Break it off with her now and hook up with her when you come home for Thanksgiving.

[mosdef]

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To the OP - welcome to life. You're going to go thru this several more times. It doesn't get easier. The posters who argue that you're better off starting college solo are probably right, and it's the most fair thing for her.

"Most everyone can agree that the girl you date in high school is your last opportunity at a good relationship, so don't blow it." - most everyone under the age of twenty, maybe. This has to be in the running for the stupidest comment I've seen posted - and that's saying a lot.

MM MD

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Your sarcasm detector needs a tune up.

[bisonbison]

She's cute. She'll be fine once you stop pretending you love her to make yourself feel better about this/try to get some on the side.

[Ditch Digger]

Post a pic of you two together so we can see if you can do any better.

[David H]

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Post a pic of you two together so we can see if you can do any better.

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I'm sure I could, but I don't know if that's a real important part of this thread...either way I don't feel like finding a decent picture of me.