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06-06-2007, 04:17 PM
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Re: Dates
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[ QUOTE ] i've seen her 5 nights in a row, we went to the zoo, we talk a ton, go out and eat, go for drinks, hang out at our places, stayed up all night and watched the sun rise, make out, and fallen asleep with her. so far thats it. but, im going away for the summer in a week or so, and have only known her for 2 weeks. [/ QUOTE ] BANG HER ASAP K THX [/ QUOTE ] This is the only solid advice I have seen in this thread. U have a week left before u leave for the summer? What the hell are u waiting on. [censored] her in everyway u can before u leave. I don't want to see u on here talking about dates. [censored] her man. Go get that ass. 
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#23
06-14-2007, 08:17 PM
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Re: Dates
if its a random, get her drunk in a group setting, hook up, try to bang
if its a girl you're already friends with its too late, you're on the wrong ladder, don't bother. you can procede by plan a if failing miserably will help you get over her. if its a girl you're already making out with and falling asleep next to her? wtf, why havent you gotten her drunk and banged her yet?
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#24
06-16-2007, 01:08 PM
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Re: Dates
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Usually dinner, obv pay for it [/ QUOTE ]Pick up artists disagree... [/ QUOTE ] Explain pleaseeeee!!! [/ QUOTE ] From David DeAngelo's newsletter. I copy/pasted. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] " This is a common dilemma that most men face... "To pay or not to pay, that is the question." Here are some of the problems that "paying" creates: 1. It sets you up as the one who is "pursuing" the woman, which symbolically gives away your power to her. 2. It can be expensive. 3. It usually causes women to play even "harder to get". 4. It triggers all kinds of "courtship" behaviors. Like her making you prove yourself, waiting to have sex, etc. 5. The places you'll be going to "pay" are often not the best places to actually get to know another human being. Movies, fancy dinners, etc., aren't natural environments and they don't lead to people "being themselves". So, what's the alternative? Well, the FIRST thing you should do is CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT "DATING"... and "paying". Most guys just naturally assume that if they're "taking a girl out" that they need to take her to a show or movie, a nice dinner, etc. And by the way, this is actually part of a much BIGGER issue... that most guys feel OBLIGATED to give things to women, buy them things... and basically PAY for their attention and affection. If you've got a "bad" case of this, then I recommend that you get your hands on a copy of my "Deep Inner Game" program. It will help you change all of that BAD programming, and build a self image and a powerful self confidence that will make women feel more NATURALLY attracted to you. Details are here: http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.c...lid=2&ll=1 Of course, these are basically the WORST places to go with a woman in the beginning because, as I mentioned above, they aren't very "natural" places to be. Instead of asking a woman "out to dinner", try this... When you're talking on the phone about getting together say, "Let's meet for a cup of tea. This way, if YOU turn out to be a complete freak, I can run away easily." This will get a laugh, and it will get her thinking to herself, "Wow, this guy is qualifying ME." Also, suggest a place that's close to your house, in case you want to invite her over afterward. When you meet for tea, actually drink tea (or iced tea). Because coffee makes your breath nasty and tea is perceived as a more "classy" drink. It's also cheaper than a latte or a mocha. After you have tea for 30 or 60 minutes, decide how YOU like HER. If you want to continue say either: "Hey, let's keep talking. I want to shop for a bit, come along." ...or... "Hey, let's keep talking. Where are you parked? You can follow me..." (to your place, of course). In either case, just assume that she will go along with whatever you're doing, and she almost always will if you're doing a good job of being Cocky & Funny and keeping her attention. If you do go out "shopping", go to a funky alternative neighborhood that has tattoo shops, record stores, ethnic food restaurants, etc. Every city has an area like this, so go there. These places are SO GREAT because they have fun and interesting conversation BUILT RIGHT IN. If things are going well, and you're enjoying the time with her, you can then have her follow you over to your place. Again, just tell her that you're enjoying the conversation, and that you'd like to continue... and for her to follow you. Total expense (if you pay for her tea and yours): A few bucks. How much better is this than taking her out to an expensive meal and trying to have a normal conversation across a table while being forced to look right at each other all night? You do the math. If you actually do a little creative thinking, you can figure out ALL KINDS of great things to do that cost little or no money at all when you go out with women. Extra bonus: When you don't do "normal" dating things, women will tend to play "hard to get" less. They'll expect less in the way of gifts and money spent on them and they'll actually HAVE MORE FUN. Really."
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#28
06-17-2007, 03:31 AM
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Re: Dates
Like I know htis is a public forum, but is there ever a way of getting advice without retarded stuff like SIIHP or cum on her face. Like I know you guys are trying to be funny, but for some people this is a serious and most of you probably haven't been out with a woman ever.
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#29
06-19-2007, 01:28 AM
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Re: Dates
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Like I know htis is a public forum, but is there ever a way of getting advice without retarded stuff like SIIHP or cum on her face. Like I know you guys are trying to be funny, but for some people this is a serious and most of you probably haven't been out with a woman ever. [/ QUOTE ] Exactly why you should SIIHP
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#30
06-19-2007, 06:40 AM
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Re: Dates
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First date: Social activity where you can interact with the person. This means NO to movies. I would suggest something like bowling where you can play at your leisure and talk between shots, etc. Dinner is OK too, but do not go to an italian restaraunt on the first few dinner dates until you are comfortable with the person. Red sauce stains... [/ QUOTE ] who needs social interaction, go to the movies, get sucked off in the back row and don't call her back ftw
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