Transfer problem

[PuppyFridayYall]

I cashed out everything I had on Full Tilt awhile ago and have been playing Stars. I started missing Full Tilt and wanted to move some of my money there. I found someone willing to trade on Full Tilt and he agreed that he'd send if I sent first. So I transferred the money to this individual's Stars account and he said he got it. I asked him to send to me and he said okay. Then he logged off of AOL and I still haven't gotten my money. I just sent an email to Stars but haven't heard anything.

What can I do and how can I get my money back if I'm sure this person, now, has no intention of sending?