Breaking up with a long-term girlfriend

[Peter Harris]

show her this thread, obv

[MitchL]

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Several close and good friends have talked to me about it.



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I so wouldn´t listen to friends or strangers on the internet on this one...

I hear so many stories about couples breaking up as soon as difficulties arise. I think that´s sad, and that the true purpose of a relationship (aka "mutual love") should be to help each other out when in problems.

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Dude, he is a kid involved with a co-dependent, alcoholic, borderline-psycho. It doesnt take a couples therapist to put 2 and 2 together.

[CommanderCorm]

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Several close and good friends have talked to me about it.



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I so wouldn´t listen to friends or strangers on the internet on this one...

I hear so many stories about couples breaking up as soon as difficulties arise. I think that´s sad, and that the true purpose of a relationship (aka "mutual love") should be to help each other out when in problems.

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Dude, he is a kid involved with a co-dependent, alcoholic, borderline-psycho. It doesnt take a couples therapist to put 2 and 2 together.

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You´re throwing around somewhat big words for saying "She´s acting pretty crazy when drunk". While this may be a problem, I´m sure she regrets her behavior as well, it doesn´t make her "borderline-psycho", and she may still be a great person when sober. What´s your suggestion anyway? Isolate anyone who can´t handle alcohol?

Edit: And I guarantee the solution to most relationship problems is alot more complicated than "putting 2 + 2 together".

[MitchL]

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Several close and good friends have talked to me about it.



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I so wouldn´t listen to friends or strangers on the internet on this one...

I hear so many stories about couples breaking up as soon as difficulties arise. I think that´s sad, and that the true purpose of a relationship (aka "mutual love") should be to help each other out when in problems.

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Dude, he is a kid involved with a co-dependent, alcoholic, borderline-psycho. It doesnt take a couples therapist to put 2 and 2 together.

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You´re throwing around somewhat big words for saying "She´s acting pretty crazy when drunk". While this may be a problem, I´m sure she regrets her behavior as well, it doesn´t make her "borderline-psycho", and she may still be a great person when sober. What´s your suggestion anyway? Isolate anyone who can´t handle alcohol?

Edit: And I guarantee the solution to most relationship problems is alot more complicated than "putting 2 + 2 together".

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Think you need to read the OP a little clearer. Every problem he has mentioned specifically is attributal at least partially to alcohol. Of course this is not even that important, bc bottom line he doesnt want to go out with her anymore and he is an 18 yo kid who should experience life rather than be bogged down in an unhealthy relationship

[CommanderCorm]

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Several close and good friends have talked to me about it.



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I so wouldn´t listen to friends or strangers on the internet on this one...

I hear so many stories about couples breaking up as soon as difficulties arise. I think that´s sad, and that the true purpose of a relationship (aka "mutual love") should be to help each other out when in problems.

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Dude, he is a kid involved with a co-dependent, alcoholic, borderline-psycho. It doesnt take a couples therapist to put 2 and 2 together.

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You´re throwing around somewhat big words for saying "She´s acting pretty crazy when drunk". While this may be a problem, I´m sure she regrets her behavior as well, it doesn´t make her "borderline-psycho", and she may still be a great person when sober. What´s your suggestion anyway? Isolate anyone who can´t handle alcohol?

Edit: And I guarantee the solution to most relationship problems is alot more complicated than "putting 2 + 2 together".

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Think you need to read the OP a little clearer. Every problem he has mentioned specifically is attributal at least partially to alcohol. Of course this is not even that important, bc bottom line he doesnt want to go out with her anymore and he is an 18 yo kid who should experience life rather than be bogged down in an unhealthy relationship

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He´s 22.

[sonneti]

Man up and tell her "This isnt a healthy relationship, I'm not doing this forever so I'm breaking up NOW"

Then txt it to her after you've drank 28 beers.

[Cream Soda]

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don't ask for this kind of advice on the internet. all you're going to hear is ppl saying "just break up" which is extremely easy to say, and means absolutely nothing.

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[Los Feliz Slim]

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post pics, obv

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[__w__]

Just start doing goofy stuff and get her to break up with you. Much easier. SIIHP, then try to get a BJ right after pulling it out. Shoot it in her eyes after any BJ. Start making moves on her best friend. Or her mom. Beat off to porn 24/7 when she's around. Don't stop even if her friends, or parents come over.

Seriously, you need to lose this chick fast, but she's gonna be ultra tough to dump, because no dame likes to feel like a loser. So, get her to dump you.

[Lonhro]

Whatever you do, don't let your mother ask her to move in out the back after you've broken up. It's not a good plan.