Variance?: Is she a cheater and what would you do?

[_Drogo_]

"(I work all nights she works all days), so I don't get to see her much."

If you actually love her and want to work things out this has to change. I realize finances may be an issue but you can't have much of a relationship if you never see her.

Tony

[SretiCentV]

You already think shes cheating so the way you tell your story is just to get a bunch of random people on the internet to agree with you. I bet if she told us her story, she'd look like an angel and you'd be the total [censored].

[Banzai]

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"(I work all nights she works all days), so I don't get to see her much."

If you actually love her and want to work things out this has to change. I realize finances may be an issue but you can't have much of a relationship if you never see her.

Tony

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No strat in BBV please.

[SimonBarSinister]

Riding the baloney pony

FTW

[DigitalDeuce]

Umm...

When a couple stops (or nearly stops) having sex, it's almost always a sure fire sign the relationship is over (or that there are some serious problems no one is talking about).

Is she cheating, I'd say it's very likely she has or is (on occassion). You've broken up several times and then got married and you two still can't make things work. You obviously aren't right for each other and making it work is just going to hurt you both. To put it bluntly..

GET A DIVORCE!

Seriously. You don't have kids or any real assests to worry about between you so it makes it fairly easy to deal with. You're in Vegas, the city of sin and temptation. You're having marital problems..financial problems..suspect she's cheating...you are not in a good situation to stay together.

[PunterSThompson]

dtmfa

[Jurrr]

Figure out a way how you don't have to pay alimony. That is the most important thing.

And she is 99.9% cheating on you.

[lostsoul]

She has cheated. She has probablly done it once the time she didn't come home. The other times she probablly wanted to be away from u. U said u all have been togther for 2 yrs. Broke up twice in that time and still got married. Not a good idea to get married when your relationship isn't stable and from the saounds of things she isn't the most stable one around either. There are always going to be problems in a marriage but both of u have to be commited to fixing them and if both of u aren't then why waste your time. Start getting some cash togther. Have a grand or so aside for when the divorce happens. U never know how long it will take to get seperate accounts and to get all the money stuff straight so it is good to have alittle extra saved up that she doesn't know about.

[Karak567]

if lostsoul says she's cheating, then she's probably cheating

[cakewalk]

def cheating.
who gets drunk to go shopping for gifts ?

and she drinks and drives, drop that bitch