Help with a confusing as heck girl (long)

[onlinebeginner]

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why college kids shudnt try relationships with HS girls. srsly..

besides that...sounds like a HS girl by nature (still wants to play games), so dont waste ur time. u sound like a good kid, and u dont wanna get dragged down to the bottom of this lake. just take it in stride, ask her about the text (to put her on the spot and make her feel uncomfortable), and leave it at that. find some cool girls at college...urll b fine

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dragged down to the bottom of a lake... it's not like he's falling in love

[Eaglebauer]

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Jesus Christ for the love of God texting and facebook is not how you communicate with girls you want to sex up.


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Agreed.

I'm surprised OP has not gotten more [censored] in this thread.

OP- There's about 99% confidence that nothing good is going to come of this. Just completely drop the relationship now and forget her and maybe the 100-1 shot will come in where she will come back to you and say "hey why did you ditch me" and decide she wants you then.

Then again, probably not.

[onlinebeginner]

to much hate on the text message by older guys... its really quite common for people college age and under, and is not viewed as weird or weak or having no balls etc.

[DGS86]

Well, regardless texting isn't really an ideal way to communicate. I keep in touch with friends via text messages / AIM etc... but I havn't even asked a girlfriend for her email / aim SN or anything. If i want to talk to her, I'll call her, it just makes more sense to me. Theres always little nuances that can only be recognized by voice and get lost in text as well.

[onlinebeginner]

email??????.... text is phone number... it's just a casual way of asking a quick question without getting involved in a converstation