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Sex after babies?
So 'Chair and I were just out to lunch at the Cheesecake Factory (yum) and got to discussing sex... standard. Our conversation landed on the topic of having babies and how that can really change a woman's body.
My question (or fear?) is: does having a baby totally change the vagina and make sex less pleasurable for either or both parties? I know that having a baby affects women's bodies differently (for instance, my mom had a 6-pack when I was a toddler, but then you see the moms on Discovery Health channel who have like six inches of hanging skin), and I'm wondering if perhaps it's the same with the vagina? I'd love to hear from any of you married-with-kids guys or perhaps any of you who have just banged a lot of moms. Is the tightness gone after childbirth? Temporarily or permanently? Better yet, have any of you had any experience with vaginal rejuvenation surgery? I'm expecting a lot of "Ewwww gross!" reactions but if you think about it, this is something that will probably eventually affect a lot of the people in this forum, if not already. So spill the beans! EDIT: I am not planning on having babies for another ten years, I'm just curious. |
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Re: Sex after babies?
from what i have been told, kegels still work even if you've popped a few out. however, breastfeeding makes your nipples look funny, might want to watch out for that.
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Re: Sex after babies?
just make sure you have a small baby and you got nothin to worry about
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Re: Sex after babies?
lawl @ larry,
I think I read in either Glamour or Marie Claire that it takes up to a year before women are physically comfortable enough to have sex again (post baby). |
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Re: Sex after babies?
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lawl @ larry, I think I read in either Glamour or Marie Claire that it takes up to a year before women are physically comfortable enough to have sex again (post baby). [/ QUOTE ] which is fine cause it will take at least that long for the little [censored] to sleep through the night anyway |
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Re: Sex after babies?
i've had sex with several women who had kids, and i never noticed too much difference from a before/after perspective..
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Re: Sex after babies?
make sure teh doc stiches you up good afterwards.
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Re: Sex after babies?
Go the trophy wife route of c-section + wet nurse. Hell, just go all the way and find a surrogate mother. Natural chilbirth is so played out.
And going with the surrogate mother has the added benefit of you not becoming a psycho hose beast after giving birth. |
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Re: Sex after babies?
I'm married w\ 2 kids. One is almost 4 and the other is about 1 1\2.
I think tightness stayed about the same, and if not, she regained her normal tightness after a few months. You are supposed to wait a while (6 weeks I think) anyway, so no matter how loose it was, I didnt care [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] Other things, however, do change. One is soreness, especially if there is any tearing. She had an episiotomy the first go round and tore a bunch. She did not have an episiotomy the 2nd time, and did not tear at all. There seems to be alot of opinions on it, but if we ever have another I dont think she will get one. I'll be happy to answer any add'l questions, or be more specific, but right now I have to get ready for the UNC\Duke game. |
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Re: Sex after babies?
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lawl @ larry, I think I read in either Glamour or Marie Claire that it takes up to a year before women are physically comfortable enough to have sex again (post baby). [/ QUOTE ] That's a horrible generalization. 3-4 months is closer to standard. My wife has had two kids and there is no discernible difference in pre- and post-baby sex. Now, she works out and keeps in shape so YMMV. Oh yeah, sex after 35 can still be good. |
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