Beat: My girlfriend is a lying piece of trash (LONG)

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am i the only one who noticed in original post that OP punched his gf in the face?

maybe my english is bad or its totally normal behavior in those circumstances..

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He told her to get out so that he didn't punch her in the face, despite what it looks like in the pictures.

Lori

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Seriously dude, you guys are young and obviously lacking communication skills. Don't want to ruin the thread with serious advices but as mentionned before, you both met quite young and it looks like she wants to try new stuff. She's changing, thats all, and its doesn't mean you relation will die. An adaptation is required tho..

Just try to express yourself the best way you can, using stuff like *I feel that..., I think you..., I'm angry because...* Focus on how you feel, go straight to the point and minimize any attack you could do on her. Encourage her to be coherent about herself too or at least think about it and come back to you with a clear mind.

Good communication is vital. Bad vibes and cheap shots is cancer in a relation.

If you hate her that much, you're prolly still in love.

good luck.

.fs.

[NicksDad1970]

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am i the only one who noticed in original post that OP punched his gf in the face?

maybe my english is bad or its totally normal behavior in those circumstances..

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He told her to get out so that he didn't punch her in the face, despite what it looks like in the pictures.

Lori

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Seriously dude, you guys are young and obviously lacking communication skills. Don't want to ruin the thread with serious advices but as mentionned before, you both met quite young and it looks like she wants to try new stuff. She's changing, thats all, and its doesn't mean you relation will die. An adaptation is required tho..

Just try to express yourself the best way you can, using stuff like *I feel that..., I think you..., I'm angry because...* Focus on how you feel, go straight to the point and minimize any attack you could do on her. Encourage her to be coherent about herself too or at least think about it and come back to you with a clear mind.

Good communication is vital. Bad vibes and cheap shots is cancer in a relation.

If you hate her that much, you're prolly still in love.

good luck.

.fs.

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Even if he did communicate better what would that do? If what he says is true she has such little respect for him that she lies many times. She's on the phone with another guy saying she's out with the girls?

She sounds like a real class act.

Then again there are 3 sides to every story.

[tolbiny]

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am i the only one who noticed in original post that OP punched his gf in the face?

maybe my english is bad or its totally normal behavior in those circumstances..

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He told her to get out so that he didn't punch her in the face, despite what it looks like in the pictures.

Lori

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Seriously dude, you guys are young and obviously lacking communication skills. Don't want to ruin the thread with serious advices but as mentionned before, you both met quite young and it looks like she wants to try new stuff. She's changing, thats all, and its doesn't mean you relation will die. An adaptation is required tho..

Just try to express yourself the best way you can, using stuff like *I feel that..., I think you..., I'm angry because...* Focus on how you feel, go straight to the point and minimize any attack you could do on her. Encourage her to be coherent about herself too or at least think about it and come back to you with a clear mind.

Good communication is vital. Bad vibes and cheap shots is cancer in a relation.

If you hate her that much, you're prolly still in love.

good luck.

.fs.

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This is good advice. Here's a little example to follow.

*I feel that...burning sensation when i pee
I think you...gave me the clap
I'm angry because...you gave me the effing clap!

[nath]

I LOVE READING ABOUT WHITE TRASH BREAKING UP, THE GENE POOL'S DILUTION HAS BEEN SLIGHTLY DELAYED ONCE AGAIN

[killsadie]

omfg thats sick

[Butso]

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And on his farm he had some cows
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With a moo-moo here

And a moo-moo there

Here a moo, there a moo
Everywhere a moo-moo
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U obviously handled the whole thing wrong.

just cuz she flirts with other guys and has been talking to other guys does not mean that she is [censored] them or planning on [censored] them.

She probably is just bored and wants to see if she can pick up guys just for the sake of her ego. You need to sit her down and have a long civilized talk with her, involving rational questions about whether or not she [censored] another dude. Then and ONLY then can u make a proper judgement about her involvement with Billy and these other guys.

It's funny cuz even though u handled this pretty terribly a friend of mine did worse - he actually hawked a loogie in his ex-gf's face when he found out she was cheating on him.

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Dude, i totally am a super nice guy and let her do w/e she wants. I never flirt with girls. It was pretty much common knowledge within families that we were practically married. She kept asking for a freakin ring. She was pregnant and lost the baby. I just expect that with a relationship like that, there isn't even the consideration of another person.

It would be different under different circumstances. She lied to me pretty much every chance she got. Not to mention she gets drunk and parties all the time and pic above of her making out with another girl shows That you ought to be f*ckin both of them

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Seriously

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yeah i totally agree that a couple lies is definately a *OMG YUR SUCH A BITCH* alert and its time to seek for vengence.

[illuminati]

Has she got a bubbly personality? Because of her eating etc.?

[Gildwulf]

goddamit