Minimum cancelation time for a date...

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It's all about managing expectations. If she's fine with knowing 15 minutes beforehand and realizes that's what will happen, then your line is fine. If not, just reschedule the date anyway when you're both definitely free.

Yugoslav

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yeah... that's my thing... she knows my job definately comes first. She knows, and needs to accept the fact that cancellations on personal commitments is part of the package. At the same time... I don't pride myself on being a total dic.

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She REALLY doesn't need to know / face the whole package before much much later. I understand it's nice to try to be honest, etc. It just doesn't work that way.

I did the whole package deal 6 years ago, on third date. Now we have a daughter, a house and we're getting a ... divorce.

So, if you're serious about her, don't push your complete package into her face. If you're not serious about her, don't push your complete package into her face.