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06-18-2006, 03:12 AM
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Re: how long...
I haven't ended a serious long-term relationship in like 7 years. Depends on how old you are and who broke up with whom, on what terms, etc. If it was messy or you were upset about it, it's totally fine to feel weird for well over a month. When one of my first really serious girlfriends dumped me I wasn't right for the better part of a semester. If you don't want to hook up with girls, don't, it will be weird and awful and you'll regret it.
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#13
06-18-2006, 03:13 AM
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Re: how long...
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I'm not really angry either its more like if she decides shes not happy with me its her effing loss [/ QUOTE ] i didnt mean to come off like a prick, and i dont blame u if u turn into the round mound of rebound. as a side note my ex just called me to tell me that her brother, who i know very well was in a serious car accident and i dont know if i should return her call. i dont want to be a jerk off, but im not comfortable talking to her. wow i am a super tool posting this on a internet forum, i suck...
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06-18-2006, 03:15 AM
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Re: how long...
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as a side note my ex just called me to tell me that her brother, who i know very well was in a serious car accident and i dont know if i should return her call. i dont want to be a jerk off, but im not comfortable talking to her. [/ QUOTE ] Did you dump her? Is there any part of you that might want to be friends or on friendly terms with her? Since you have some uncertainty I'm assuming yes. Call her, give her your condolences, be brief if need be, but it will mean a great deal. NT
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06-18-2006, 03:47 AM
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Re: how long...
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ASAP, but generally I've heard it takes about half the length of a relationship to get beyond it mentally -- which is about what I've experienced. [/ QUOTE ] Wow, this is unbelievably on point. Almost exactly the same time length for me.
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#18
06-18-2006, 03:56 AM
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Re: how long...
I have recently (within the last 3 years) gotten out of two 1yearish relationships. The first one, I was dumped, and it took me a good 4-6 months before I was really comfortable being with another girl. The second one, I did the dumping, and was looking almost immediately for a newer model.
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06-18-2006, 03:57 AM
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Re: how long...
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Eh, I get over relationships in like 24-48 hours. I guess I've never been broken up with, though. In that case it might be different. [/ QUOTE ] i wasnt broken up w/, but im not sure how that changes anything. i was w/ my ex for almost 3 years, and getting w/ someone else just seems kinda awkward at this point in time...
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