Girlfriends going to parties without you - advice?

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Maybe you suck at partying?

Maybe she's ashamed of you? (For example, it might be a party where most people dress fashionably and your only suit is from a thrift shop, not Versace)

Maybe you don't behave that well when you're drunk?

Maybe she just wants to go alone? It's not like a couple is supposed to be together all the time, they are supposed to have their own hobbies and friends too. When you go to the local bar to play pool and drink beer do you invite her every time?

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Perfect

If your relationship is strong, don't worry about it.

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yeah this isn't a cool thing to do. i'd start lining up my sidepussy and break up with her pretty soon

[guids]

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Did you guys who have women problems skip pre-school and kindegarten?

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I don't know how schools work in America, but over here, we don't learn how to be smooth, suave ladies men in pre-school or kindergarten. Some guys have things like crappy dads who never taught them anything.

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not a crappy dad but my dad was a long haul trucker for all of my teenage years 11-19 before i started to see him on a regular basis. well just say im on a bit of a learning curve.

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You dont have to be a suave ladies man to use your big boy words and communicate with her. You guys should have leanred this in pre-school/kindergarten. Just try to use your inside voice though. Morans.

[xwillience]

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Did you guys who have women problems skip pre-school and kindegarten?

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I don't know how schools work in America, but over here, we don't learn how to be smooth, suave ladies men in pre-school or kindergarten. Some guys have things like crappy dads who never taught them anything.

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not a crappy dad but my dad was a long haul trucker for all of my teenage years 11-19 before i started to see him on a regular basis. well just say im on a bit of a learning curve.

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You dont have to be a suave ladies man to use your big boy words and communicate with her. You guys should have leanred this in pre-school/kindergarten. Just try to use your inside voice though. Morans.

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I DONT KNOW WHAT WERE YELLING ABOUT!!!


i do use my big boy words... the problem is i dont think they understand when i use them, so im forced to lower myelf down to.... hey, look at the shiny objects...

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Ya, thats it, your superior intellect. Keep telling yourself that, you should turn out fine. Im not yelling, Im just telling you like it is down here on earth with the rest of us mere humans.

[PartyGirlUK]

When I saw the title of the post I was going to say how insecure you are. But she is really really out of order for not providing an explanation to you.

As to the general issue, some of the time I am going to want to go out without my girl, perhaps to have a guys night out or whatever, and I would apply the same standards to her, so if she wanted to go a party on her own and explained the situation I wouldnt have a problem with it.

[xwillience]

never seen Anchorman i take it?

[Roybert]

I think the fact that she's going to parties without inviting you AND lying about how much she's drinking at them shows a clear issue.

My wife goes to parties quite often, but I'm always invited and I always know where they are and who she's with (sometimes I just don't want to go). She has no prob calling me up and letting me know she's wrecked, no problem with calling for a ride, etc.

I'd be more worried that she seems to want to keep things from you. If she can't be honest about getting [censored] up and having fun, then I think there are issues you have to deal with. I'd def be concerned.

[januarymute]

This bitch deserves to die for what she's done.

[gamblore99]

I am really shocked by the replies to this. This is not a problem at all.