Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?

[ScottySo]

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Friend did nothing wrong.
He gave you space, he gave you time. She wasnt interested. He didnt go in her room, she went to his. She wanted it. Nothing was happening between you and the girl so he seized the opportunity. Nothing wrong with that.

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how do you know she wasn't interested? OP states "We both had feeling for each other". It seems to be possible (but certainly it is not a given) that the girl had no intention of doing anything with OP, but even if that was the case that does not give the greenlight. The only way I can think of that would possibly give the friend ANY leniency in this situation would be if he had said, prior to this evening, that OP was free to pursue any girl that the friend had feelings for and that he was going to do the same. however,

"my friend had told me many times before NEVER to hit any girls he dated or fooled around with before. I respected that ".

friend [censored] up bigtime.

OP, i don't think any sort of confrontation is necessary. kicking this guys ass or doing anything to get revenge seems immature to me. if he comes to you, tell him he [censored] up and you have no will to be friends with someone like that. the only way, IMO, he has a shot at redeeming himself at all is if he openly admits how poorly he acted. If he tries to defend it at all that just reaffirms how much of a dick he is.