How long to wait before telling your child they\'re adopted?
So my friend mentioned yesterday that her little sister recently told her that she had originally discovered she was adopted by reading my friend's diaries. I asked how old she was when that happened and she said 4th or 5th grade (she's now 18). To me that seemed like a traumatically old age to learn both that you are adopted and that your older brother and sister weren't. I imagine if I was the parent of an adopted kid I'd break it to them around 5 or 6. What do you guys think?
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