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#141
08-10-2006, 02:03 PM
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Re: Shabash
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...she's also wicked hot. Pic will not be happening however. Unless she cheated on me. Keep your fingers crossed OOT! [/ QUOTE ] so GA any updates? 
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#142
08-10-2006, 02:10 PM
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Re: Shabash
Not really, sadly. She's still mulling things over and so am I. We're both in therapy and I see her every now and then and we talk awkwardly. I'm basically still in shock and just trying to keep my [censored] together.
SO, no nekkid pix for U srry lol.
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#143
08-10-2006, 02:41 PM
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Re: Shabash
is it possible for you to ask her out on a date and make things fun again?
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#145
08-10-2006, 03:22 PM
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Re: She left me
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Sorry you are going through this. I think you will feel better if somehow you are able to take control and be the one deciding rather than being powerless. [/ QUOTE ] Definitely you want to put yourself in control. You are only 29 so you have plenty of time to find a new one and live happily every after!
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#146
08-10-2006, 03:51 PM
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Re: She left me
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She said that had felt this way for years, since before we were married, but she couldn’t express it, or admit it to herself. [/ QUOTE ]This part concerns me. Why would she get married to you if she felt this way before you were married?
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#147
08-10-2006, 04:00 PM
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Re: She left me
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[ QUOTE ] 1. She is almost certianly cheating on you. [/ QUOTE ] Yeah, 'cause clearly you have enough information to assume this. To me "I don't believe in divorce" is basically "I am not a pragmatist" which bothers me. [/ QUOTE ] Or it could mean that he lives his life according to basic principles and he is willing to withstand a bit of displeasure for what he believes to be the ethical choice.
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#148
08-10-2006, 04:02 PM
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Re: She left me
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drew: Neither of us could stomach "Open Marriage" or anything like that. Even if she did cheat on me, it wasn't becuase she just wants more sex. She just doesn't want me. casper, others: We don't have a lot of assets, and what we do have she's welcome to. I doubt it will come to that, but if so, meh. My bankroll is well hidden, and I've been poor before. Aces: You're right, I don't really want to prolong the torture. If she says she's done, then I'll probably give up too. [/ QUOTE ]Just wanted to commend you: While this must be a tough time, it sounds as if you're handling it the best you possibly could and sounds like you're a very classy person.
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#149
08-10-2006, 04:10 PM
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Re: She left me
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This is a little OT, but what is the obsession with marriage? I have been dating my gf for a few years (I'm 22) and I am very serious with her. That being said, there is no way in hell I would get married right now. Things can change so much and there is really no point in getting married unless someone is very religous or there are children involved. Posts like this make me very fearful of getting married before I'm 30. [/ QUOTE ] -some people want to wait til marriage to have sex which obviously makes them want to get married quicker -some people are just geeked up to have a big wedding celebration and all of their friends there. They think of how great that day would be and don't want to wait. -when you're in love, you don't always think rationally -accidental pregnency -pressure to conform to social norms -not positive, but I think theres some tax benefits I could go on...
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