Female on Paxil, Things have changed - Page 59

El Diablo · #**581** 03-31-2006, 02:44 PM

All,

I disagree w/ everyone saying the pics Doc had online are fair game for being posted.

Doc posted a single picture of himself w/ his friends cropped out. Some of us followed the URL and viewed other pics there. He did not intend for those pics to be posted and did nothing to make them public besides not being very tech savvy about directory protections. One of the pics there was a girl who I was confident was the girl in this thread, but because Doc had not posted them for public viewing, I did not think it appropriate to post the picture in this thread.

Please do not derail this thread by posting Doc's private info.

Doc, here is my take on Katie. She's an OK-looking girl, someone who's cute enough to get guys, but not cute enough for guys to fawn all over. So, when she's with random guys who aren't all over her, she does stuff you might not like to receive validation from them. Hence, the groping w/ random guys, the random hookups, etc. All to make herself feel wanted and desired. But, when she's with you, you treat her like a princess at all times. She likes that and keeps you around because of that, but she's never going to take it to the sexual level with you, that's for the guys that she doesn't otherwise receive validation from. This is why you rubbed her for twenty minutes but she still wouldn't let you touch her. BTW, Doc, you have some cute friends. And you're a reasonable looking guy. Frankly, better looking than Katie. It's not your looks that are making you unattractive, it's your self-esteem and lack of a spine. Stop focusing on the chick walking all over you and find someone who really likes you. Trust me, Katie (or whoever this girl is) doesn't.

Mods/Posters: I fully support removing the pics that someone rehosted here. As well as MySpace links, etc.

odellthurman · #**582** 03-31-2006, 02:59 PM

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Please do not derail this thread by posting Doc's private info.

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This thread has been off the rail from the beginning, and the thread deals with Doc's private info.

snagglepuss · #**583** 03-31-2006, 03:09 PM

diablo,

i do not think there is anything wrong with linking to someone's myspace webpage, which is in the public domain.

particularly when the level of 'sleuthing' to uncover it was googling for doc7.

rehosting of images he did not intend and wishes not to share is understandable to be against, as is posting of actual personal details.

linking to something obvious that is in the public domain however is a-ok in my book. obviously harassing anyone other than doc7 here is not.

diablo, your advice to doc is spot on as usual, but i really don't think he is worthy of it, or anyone else in this forums advice, because he clearly doesn't listen to nor apply it.

El Diablo · #**584** 03-31-2006, 03:30 PM

odell: You know what I mean. Posting pics that someone meant to keep private isn't cool.

snaggle: Agreed re: the MySpace link.

edfurlong · #**585** 03-31-2006, 03:42 PM

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odell: You know what I mean. Posting pics that someone meant to keep private isn't cool.

snaggle: Agreed re: the MySpace link.

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Posting that picture was a douchebaggy move on my part. I have no problems with it going away.

El Diablo · #**586** 03-31-2006, 03:47 PM

ed,

Make it go away, then!

snagglepuss · #**587** 03-31-2006, 04:04 PM

katie,

in the slight event that you stumble upon this thread, and manage to read all of it, can you please take the time to register an account and post your thoughts?

it would be much appreciated to get your thoughts on this whole situation. i assume you agree with most of the advice/comments to dave in this thread.

Anacardo · #**588** 03-31-2006, 04:09 PM

Chuddo,

Is it the fate of everyone else to have to repeat your own trainwreck? Is that a notion that gives you satisfaction?

Hopey · #**589** 03-31-2006, 04:09 PM

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public plea to the moderators to shut this down right now

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you got what you deserved. everyone save the my space link in case this gets deleted.

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Why does he "deserve" to be humiliated? Doc hasn't done anything to bring anything nasty down on himself. He seems like a decent and honest guy, and has never come across as anything else. It won't be funny if someone contacts "Kati", it will be very sad.

Los Feliz Slim · #**590** 03-31-2006, 04:15 PM

This sucks. We're never going to find out what happens now. Doc, I hope this doesn't make things even worse, although you'll know someday they can't be much worse than they are now. I hope that any pain this [censored] puts you through makes you strong enough to not get into this situation again (with the girl, not with OOT).