Home game ruling - was this guy a douche?

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Adolph and it isn't close. It was at showdown and he tabled his hand. If Adolph had tossed the cards face down, yeah, he gave up. But the cards were presented face up, and Adolph was just expressing exasperation and lack of confidence in his holding by saying "take it" while not actually giving up by mucking.

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What if he had said "I fold"?

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He was all in, how can someone who is all in fold? This idea isn't making any sense. You mean if he "mucked"? Then yes, Bambi wins the pot. But he didn't muck, he tabled his hand, showing he had a pair of 8's.