ADVICES FOR ALL YOU CHICKEN [censored] GUYS WANTING GIRLS

[Horacewinsagain]

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Ok - here's some advice. Try bloody listening to the girl. ACTUALLY LISTEN.

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this is terrible advice. here is a list of what listening women will get you:

1) not laid
2) an irrepressible desire to jab a pen in your eye
3) AIDS

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Yeah because the alternative is winning you all SO many points.

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beat: taking that more than .04% seriously.

[LiveNow]

DBZ,
how would you respond to a guy that you obv liked just whipping it out?

[gumpzilla]

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Ok - here's some advice. Try bloody listening to the girl. This whole thread you guys have put words into my mouth. And have not paid attention to what I've said. I've responded cuz it's funny, and it is, but honestly, just listen. Talk to them. Then listen. ACTUALLY LISTEN.

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So, you're giving me advice on how to conduct my relationships despite saying in this thread that you're failing to attract male interest among a group of men likely dying for it? That's interesting.

I think you're just not fully conscious of the entirety of what you're saying, or what you're implying. I don't think the problem is the guys and what they are or are not doing.

[divides_by_zero]

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So, you're giving me advice on how to conduct my relationships despite saying in this thread that you're failing to attract male interest among a group of men likely dying for it? That's interesting.

I think you're just not fully conscious of the entirety of what you're saying, or what you're implying. I don't think the problem is the guys and what they are or are not doing.

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Here's the thing - I only mentioned one failed attraction with a guy from the start. What I said is its hard to meet people. ANY people. I really don't care if they're male or female.

I've also mentioned that I have anxiety which affects my ability - I have been forthright in saying that I have faults. However, the whole conversation got turned around. I played along - my bad, but then decided enough was enough.

And I'm saying flat out that is what I, as a girl, want. I want someone who actually will listen to what I said. They don't have to listen to all of it, but they need to pay attention to enough of it(because I do repeat myself) to actually know what I said.

I also want someone else to wear the pants for goddamn once. Is that so much to ask?

[divides_by_zero]

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DBZ,
how would you respond to a guy that you obv liked just whipping it out?

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Hopefully he would already have his tongue down my throat.

[T-God]

Jeez, this thread is a bad'er

[ZOMG_RIGGED!]

You not being able to make freinds == Not Funny
Thinking about a topless Pirate in Math class > a little funny

If we wanted a thread for people who are to smart for their own good and thus socially akward we wouldnt be in BBVAL. This forum is for people who are too dumb for their own good and are thus socailly akward

[gumpzilla]

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So, you're giving me advice on how to conduct my relationships despite saying in this thread that you're failing to attract male interest among a group of men likely dying for it? That's interesting.

I think you're just not fully conscious of the entirety of what you're saying, or what you're implying. I don't think the problem is the guys and what they are or are not doing.

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Here's the thing - I only mentioned one failed attraction with a guy from the start. What I said is its hard to meet people. ANY people. I really don't care if they're male or female.

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This is my bit about you not realizing the fullness of what you're implying. You mention a guy, people who respond to you mention guys, you continue to respond to them without ever explicitly mentioning that you mean women too. Listening != mind reading. If you want people to listen, you need to be willing to clarify and understand that you occasionally fail to express what you mean.

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I also want someone else to wear the pants for goddamn once. Is that so much to ask?

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No, but given the nature of your complaints I don't think this will work out for you at this point.

[Georgia Avenue]

lol at dbz: You want guys to listen to you and be sweet but also wear the pants, make descisions and be a go-gettin king of the jungle. Pretty insightful imo.

At least I think that's what she's saying, I'm too busy picturing her nude but for an eyepatch in a avant garde production of Ruddigore.

--GA

[T-God]

fyi i'm not wearing pants