my pastor divorced his wife and married a sophomore

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siouxbrew,

If you figure out a way to make yourself happier, are you going to wait a year for appearance sake? I hope not. If you know what will make you happy, you should do it ASAP. I often wish that I took such actions in my own life.

Will this likely have a happy ending in the end? Probably not, but it could. Different strokes for different folks. There are still arranged marriages of women in some cultures. Is this ideal? In my mind, no. Does that matter? no.